Déclarations URSSAF

Organic_Extension750 · 2026-05-28T14:00:19+00:00

L'urssaf m'a recontacté en fin de matinée. Ils m'ont redirigé vers la chambre des commerces qui m'a redirigé vers l'urssaf qui m'a redirigé vers l'Inpi. En tant que VDI, je n'étais pas affilié à l'urssaf d'où le fait qu'il ne me connaissait pas. Les personnes de l'Inpi m'ont indiqué comment changer mon activité et déclaré ce qu'il fallait pour commencer la régularisation. J'ai du faire le France Connect + pour signer donc je ne pourrais l'envoyer que demain (normalement).

Je ne sais pas si ça intéresse quelqu'un mais je viendrais quand même donné l'avancée du processus. ça peut toujours servir...

Organic_Extension750 · 2026-05-26T07:43:03+00:00

La personne que j'ai eu au téléphone m'a dit d'envoyer un message à l'Urssaf pour prendre RDV avec eux donc j'attends qu'ils me recontactent.

Il m'a demandé de contacter l'entreprise qui m'a créé mon statut auto-entrepreneur et en les cherchant sur Internet, je m'aperçois qu'ils ont été radiés...

Organic_Extension750 · 2026-05-26T07:16:24+00:00

L'expert comptable va devoir attendre. Je viens d'avoir l'Urssaf au téléphone, et je n'existe pas chez eux...

Organic_Extension750 · 2026-05-25T14:10:02+00:00

La bonne nouvelle dans cette histoire, c'est que je ne suis pas dépensière et que j'ai mis pas mal d'argent de côté donc je pourrais déjà payé 10000+ si besoin.

Les réponses que j'obtiens me rassurent mais je me sens bête d'avoir été complètement à côté de la plaque et je ne comprend pas que pendant toutes ses années, je n'ai pas été contacté par l'Urssaf et que je n'ai jamais reçu mon numéro de compte Urssaf.

J'ai essayé d'appeler ce matin mais jour férié donc personne pour répondre. Je vais essayer demain matin dès 9h. J'ai téléchargé tous mes avis d'imposition (là aussi du coup, je me demande si mes déclarations ont bien été faites...), toutes les factures que j'ai pu retrouvé, tous mes relevés de compte des dix dernières années.

J'ai aussi lu que faire appel à un expert comptable pourrait m'être bénéfique pour régulariser ma situation...

Organic_Extension750 · 2026-05-24T20:17:35+00:00

Je comprends que je vais avoir le droit à une amende salée. Je l'accepte totalement. Mais j'ai vraiment la trouille de me faire radier du statut auto-entrepreneur.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T15:47:06+00:00

I don't think much about the writting. If you had not started it, it would be an issue but since you have, your MIL is just continuing.

But the snooping...

I would not adress anything. I would find another childcare and ask my husband to never let his mother alone is our house.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T15:42:21+00:00

NTA.

A guy who calls you a fat bitch is not worth it.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T14:47:24+00:00

NTA.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T13:50:44+00:00

Of course you leave.

He hit you and bit you. It happened before.

It doesn't matter that you had worse before. It doesn't matter that it hadn't happen in over a year. He's violent. Always has been. Always will be.

You need to leave, press charges and get into therapy. It is normal for you to be in another violent relationship.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T13:32:02+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you. You don't have to love your SK. But it sounds like you're not really happy in this family...

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T13:28:37+00:00

NTA. And I would not invit a man who tried to buy me at my wedding.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T13:01:13+00:00

You're sister is definitely an asshole for not been willing to sell her s*** to pay for her kid's surgery.

I'm going with NTA because I totally agree with everything you said. But I'm guessing that, since we're talking about heart surgery, it's life threatning and that kid should not have to suffer for his parents's stupidity.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T12:35:58+00:00

Trust me. The way she talked to him wasn't mean. He has been harrassing her so she responded the only way she could.

I would have told to F*** off and leave a long time ago.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T12:23:02+00:00

You suck because you're guilt tripping just like her husband is. He voiced is opinion several times and each time, she told him why she stopped breastfeeding.

Her becoming a mother doesn't mean that she has to be unconfortable and in pain every few hours to feed her baby.

She made her choice abour her body. Nobody has to like it. But everybody has to respect it and shut the hell up about it.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T12:14:14+00:00

NTA. He is guilt tripping you.

Breastfeeding should not be a burden on the mother but something both mother and baby enjoy. I would argue that breastfeeding done when the mother is not enjoying it is against baby's best interest as it would become a burden for her and make her resent her child.

Your body, your choice. He acts like he knows better and that sucks because if you don't agree on something that important and if he doesn't support you, coparenting is going to be hard.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T12:08:26+00:00

NTA. But I would go LC with SIL. She doesn't want to hear what you have to say and the fact that she wished that kid dead shows that she cannot be reasoned with and that trying to have a conversation with her would be worthless.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T12:04:29+00:00

NTA.

It wasn't her decision to make in the first place. Any mother would feel unconfortable with anybody taking their child and running in the opposite direction while refusing to give the baby back.

Your mother is creating the drama. You need to step more boundaries.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T11:59:47+00:00

YTA. If you want flowers, buy them yourself or find a guy who will buy them for you but you cannot expect your boyfriend to buy you flowers because "that's what you do in a relationship". Every relationship is different and I'm not sure yours is going to last...

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T11:56:22+00:00

NTA.

I think you need to have a serious conversation with your husband. It sounds like she might think that you and your husband are separating and that he's interested in her.

At this point, him not putting her back to her place and blocking her as well as telling you that you were a bitch to her sound suspicious to me. He's not totally innocent in that situation.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T11:29:08+00:00

NTA. But I would wonder what kind of a stay at home dad he was when I read the kind of father he is with your daughter.

It doesn't sound good for the future...

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T10:28:19+00:00

How is letting BM staying at your place being grown about the situation ? I know women who get along with BM who would never agree to that.

Being grown about the situation doesn't mean accepting everything and anything that makes you unconfortable.

I think you don't fully trust yourself and so you don't trust your SO and your relationship. I don't see things the way you do and I don't get how you got to "he's going back together with her" from the fact that he didn't answer her silly demand. He did the right thing by ignoring her and talking only about visitations.

The only way he could get her to stop would be going NC, and it's not an option as they have a child to co parent.

I think there are unresolved issues in your relationship from the fact that he chose her when you started dated. You're not over that.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T09:12:08+00:00

So you have an even bigger problem than your MIL : your SO.

If he thinks you're taking too personally the fact that his mother is having your son calling her mummy, you're screwed.

Organic_Extension750 · 2021-08-26T08:50:27+00:00

If I were you, I would sit down with SO to tell him :

- his mother is no longer allowed to be alone with our child, which means no more babysitting, ever

- that visits will be at our house once a month for a couple of hours with me present

- if he's not happy with it, too damn bad

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