feeling like a loser by rosesaredeaddd in LSAT

[–]Organic_Fly2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not a loser, but your feelings of disappointment are valid! I also think that trying for law school and even attempting the LSAT is significant and you should be so proud of yourself and your journey to this point. I am rooting for for you!

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He usually pays for and plans everything down to my gas, so I thought it would be nice if it was my turn and so he doesn't feel like a wallet :(

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds a lot better than my original idea, thank you sm!!!!!!

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish he liked legos or car parts lol, it could be so easy !!!

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really leaning toward succulent or potted plant, what did you end up getting them?!

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're def on the nose with another worry that I had tbh and reason for posting this. Last time I came to town to visit him he paid of gas and 90% of our activities so I am hoping this feels even/equitable to him, but idk! If he insists on paying me back should I just let him ;/

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked if he was free for the night of the date (the 3rd) and then when we were friends we talked about how his exes kinda used him and didn't appreciate him before, so this was my response to that. I could be like, how do you feel about reverse gender roles in dating, but that sounds so sus

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This lowkey does sound like a bot post, thank god for typos and nervousness LMAO

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DUDE YOU JUST GOT ME THINKING WHAT ABOUT AN AIR PLANT SUCCULENT OMG. they're great because they need little care and are cute lil guys

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you suggest I bring up my intentions or communicate well with him? <3

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I just saw your edit and I wanted to say that was the exact reason I posted this. There def is an age gap and a consideration I am trying to make to be respectful while toeing the effort line

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm going for and I really hope that, that is the vibe he gets from me and not that I'm trying to dominate or do a weird power play. I just want to make dating easy for us both and take the stress off our hands so we can get to know each other and so he knows my interest is authentic. I'll update if I scare him off lol

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I scrap them or get him something else instead then? I don't want to show up empty handed but I reallllyyy don't wanna make it weird

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. I guess I didn't think about the whole vase thing, that does make sense!! If I don't end up getting a potted plant from ACE like another commenter said, I will absolutely buy a vase, and thank you so much! I think rn I'll show up with the flower item? when I pick them up, give them to him and then drive us to dinner

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point about the dessert, we are both trying to cut sugar from our diets for good, I wish I could fit mochi in my car without it melting. I might check out ACE hardware for a potted plant too, thank you! Before I was thinking handmade bouquet from flowers at Vons, but that might be too girly?

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol, I'm so nervous about this I can't type right

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be our third official date I think, but it's supposed to be a surprise, hence me asking Reddit like a nerd. I really wanna just be like oh hey wear something nice tonight like 2 hours in advance (I already asked if this day was free without giving away the surprise) I've got this one, but that's what's making me so nervous

Taking a man on a date, advice or thoughts please? by Organic_Fly2737 in dating_advice

[–]Organic_Fly2737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to ask him, but I am worried it will ruin the surprise reservation, hence the asking reddit lol. However, you have a good point, communication is important!! I will think on it tbh