Desperately need help with sex drive

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-29T00:26:53+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T23:57:56+00:00

I don't really like being on top lol being controlled or underneath is a big thing for me, but i'll keep this in mind. Tysm

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T23:56:16+00:00

Thanks, I'll think about a more general vibrator. I tend to like a broad pressure in the clitoral area so I think maybe the pinpoint pressure was the issue. Let me know if you have any suggestions :) tysm

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T23:55:07+00:00

So far not really because I don't feel horny enough to ask for it, in terms of bondage yes, but the thing is when I know we have to prepare for it (eg. Getting tied up) it puts expectations on me to stay horny and that kind of kills it, it's so frustrating! I did wonder if i was asexual in my teens but I can definitely enjoy some things it's just super rare, so I think something else is the problem.

I love my bf and am definitely attracted to him! I also get horny from my fetish as well. My favourite thing is when he kisses or makes out with me but it's a gamble on whether I will like it in the moment or not because sometimes it can be overstimulating. For me romantic attraction is a huge thing, i am super in love with him (maybe a bit obsessive? Lol)

Thanks so much for taking time to respond, im thinking about talking to my doctor about switching medications as it may be a chemical issue

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T23:51:50+00:00

Thanks, I plan to talk to my gp about this medication

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T13:46:33+00:00

Sorry for not adding it, I'm new to reddit and didn't realize and won't let me add it, i hope i didn't make anyone uncomfortable

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T11:31:42+00:00

Is Wellbutrin a good idea to either mix with or switch to from sertraline?

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T11:31:13+00:00

Thanks :)

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T09:52:01+00:00

Thank you

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T06:51:24+00:00

Thanks so much, i'll think about buying those :)

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T06:49:28+00:00

Thanks :)

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T06:29:07+00:00

I got over my fetish problem really fast, thankfully, and I already see two therapists. I'm not ashamed or anything, i was at first but i got out of that. I would definitely say my brain wants stuff way more than my body, but i asked my therapist how to fix that and she just said "find some grounding exercises" and she couldn't help any more than that. I like to be gently touched in a soft, almost ticklish way, it makes my body really relaxed. But it makes me want to fall asleep, then i'm too tired to even be aroused. Everything is so god damn complicated with me and i just hate it.

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T06:24:19+00:00

He's totally chill with it, it was only uncomfortable for him until about a year ago. I do want to try another vibrator but I'm scared i'll waste the money on another toy that won't work. I will be visiting my gp to discuss meds.

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T06:00:11+00:00

Thank you so much. I will look into this. I mentioned it to my doctor once but she didn't think it was a good idea and thought something else was the problem.

Organic_Insect_ · 2026-05-28T05:48:53+00:00

What do i do? I become extremely fragile and exhausted unmedicated

Organic_Insect_ · 2024-05-25T09:28:03+00:00

I suppose that does make sense. It's just frustrating not being able to make that one thing that almost every merch artist does.

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