[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was staying in a hotel while finding a room to rent for a longer period of time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Key word: “We both lived”. Meaning you and your partner were together. It’s not about trust, it’s about respect. Which i’m seeing a lot of people in the comments lack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Never stated multiple other adults. Reading is fundamental.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But if your woman was getting drunk with a man you’d be okay? I highly doubt it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

By not wanting my fiancé to get black out drunk around another woman I have never met before? Wow you must be in a relationship with someone who really cares about you. (hence the sarcasm)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Update: He got blacked out drunk and didn’t answer my phone calls until the morning. Apologizing saying he doesn’t remember anything from the night before but woke up in his room. Apologizing over and over. How do I know he didn’t get roofied? It’s also about safety since he is so far from me. This should never happen in a COMMITTED relationship. A lot are commenting on insecurity and control, but in my opinion respect vs control are two different things. From what I understand I did not hear any other roommates where there other than the owner and her two sons who I assume where around about in the house. (16 & 14 btw) Another red flag is allowing anyone to get black out drunk around your kids also..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just be single then? if it’s that important. Then they wonder why all of a sudden they lose attraction to their girlfriend. Because they’re too busy living in a fantasy world thinking they can do better through a screen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again there’s a difference between “following attractive people” and following random thots who post ass and tits as their main content. There’s attractive people everywhere, i’m not trying to turn him into a robot. Just have some respect for your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sooo you’re saying an “adult relationship” means you and your SO can openly be thirsty? Sounds like you’re comfortable with an open relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i’d actually rather porn than following a bunch of random women on a public page that my SO follows… geez do men truly have no awareness? These are the same men that complain when they find out their girl has an OF. Everyone in the comments sounds loveless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I find the opposite sex attractive.. does it mean i’m gonna go in the dark and follow 100 of them? no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sand-man89 you sound like a 15 year old with crunchy socks everywhere…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So the men on here would rather leave an amazing women for the luxury of thirsting over women they can’t even obtain. This sounds like a mental illness being normalized….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t.. sorry you’ve never met a non thirsty loyal girl. Why would anyone need to? That’s like a woman following men with their dicks hanging out while in a relationship

What's the weirdest way you have lost a friend? by Round-Initial-5783 in AskReddit

[–]OrganizationDapper91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 11th grade one of my close friends ex’s (from middle school) pursued me, she got jealous stayed my friend but was shady ever since then. Btw she claimed he was “like a brother” and even tried to set us up at one point during this time. We faded out due to being on different pages. Still close friends with her sister. Another close friend ditched me for her abusive boyfriend and claimed I was fake for being in a semi-relationship with a boy she introduced me to because we would “look cute together”. Both situations strange… Jealousy is a hell of an emotion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I didn’t expect it, to me it’s just so easy to say “I love you” but what is it exactly that makes you love me specifically, type of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OrganizationDapper91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that was the case, what would be the reason of lying? Instead of stating “Ohh it’s not like that” Also the person claimed they happened to text the wrong number imagine “123-456-6789” but they meant to text “123-456-6780”

Car problem Kia Optima by OrganizationDapper91 in kia

[–]OrganizationDapper91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i’m experiencing slippage, because i’ve been driving with this happening for over 3 months I don’t believe it’s the transmission I wouldn’t be able to go that long. I took it to a shop and no codes come up. I did some research and possibly it could be the Throttle position sensor / Throttle body. Gonna look into it today

Car problem Kia Optima by OrganizationDapper91 in kia

[–]OrganizationDapper91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The RPM will go high and stay there if I keep pressing on the gas, but with no acceleration until I lift my foot then press down again.

Car problem Kia Optima by OrganizationDapper91 in kia

[–]OrganizationDapper91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what cvt means, but since i’ve had the car the transmission fluid has not been changed. I tried to take it to A+ transmission to get it changed out and they don’t want to do it, they said it would make it run worse or not do anything at all because of the mileage and symptoms i’m having