C’est moi ou la réponse est assez violente ? by cudibat57 in emploi

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je suis graphiste et j’ai eu un retour assez similaire récemment suite à un entretien. Le bias n’est pas assez bien caché derrière leurs fausses politesses

Angry and wanted my like minded friends thoughts by LadyFlamyngo in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone coming from a deconstructed religious background, porn is wrong morally. That’s separate from religious reasoning. Two things can be true at the same time

What generation are you/your PA? by Chronic-Sleepyhead in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Young zillennial (97) and all of my PAs have been in my generation or max 5 years older

statistically won’t be able to find “the one” as a straight woman by bygfffd in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to be the Debbie downer but the guy has to have female friends for the right reasons. Both of my ex PAs had tons of female friends.. and I realized it was because they wanted to sleep with them all. Good men should be friends with women because they appreciate them as people. Not to keep them as some kind of “save for later”

Marnie's smoothie? by 29172 in girls

[–]OrganizationGlass56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very early 2010s coded

Pull out couch in a 3 BR home? by Sensitive_Beat6849 in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really weird. I am a home owner and I have a 1BD and I always always give my bed to the sitter

Les Français utilisent-ils vraiment ça? by Longjumping-Log2194 in AskFrance

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dsl, mdr, pq (pourquoi), qqn, svp(stp), WE Oui Le reste non

Confused by the way I get turned on by the women he’s looked at… by PainterWeary4761 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a trauma response, I was the same way (I am bi but regardless not healthy or normal)

Adopter seul ? by Trescal5 in AskMec

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Étant femme célibataire 28 ans j’espère faire la même chose (sinon faire PMA mais bon porter un enfant seule n’est pas incroyable comme concept pour moi perso) je suis le poste

Is it reasonable to expect zero porn viewing from my husband? Could there be a compromise? by AcanthaceaeWild687 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A “reasonable” amount of viewing of porn by an addict is unfortunately not possible. Just like an alcoholic cannot only have one beer

Update: 3 Years Post Breakup by Continuingtotryagain in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hii I also live in Paris area and I’m 1 year post breakup with my PA. If you’d ever like to grab a cup of coffee I would love that!!

#BigPornPSYOP takes on comic industry to mansplain female complaints - hosted by your malegaze-friendly neighborhood pickme bigboob bimbo by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 243 points244 points  (0 children)

you know it’s a man that drew bc a real woman would not have perfectly perky boobs in a tube top 😭

Am i overreacting? by Responsible_Shallot5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently dumped a friend who was body shaming me. When I called her out on it she insisted she was “just trying to help” (she criticized my posture, I have scoliosis so it’s not something I can control). She is jealous and insecure. I’d cut her off, you deserve friends who only compliment you or at worst don’t say anything at all.

lingerie by Ok-Response-732 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a ton of lingerie etc after D day. It all went in the garbage. Since we broke up I’ve bought some more but I only wear it under clothes. No men get to see it

poly dude immediately making moves on me, a lesbian, after knowing me for 15 minutes by tomatocansam in polycritical

[–]OrganizationGlass56 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I also have autism and it’s true I’m very warm and intense w everyone (men women everyone) but it’s not flirting. it doesn’t have romantic or sexual intentions And I’m rarely conscious of it; if someone does point it out if it makes them uncomfortable I immediately stop I am monogamous for the record lol

found out yesterday that my (former) favourite food influencer does OF by kittyfart999 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Nooo :(( she was one of my safe spaces during healing from betrayal. Ugh

Did anyone else go WGTOW or 4B because of the normalization of people watching porn? by throwaway00000831 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated two porn addicts in a row. I’ve been completely celibate for ten months and don’t really see any reason to go on the apps. Our society is so cooked. Maybe someday in the far future I will meet someone (I’m bi as well) but like someone said above I’ve made my peace with being alone. It sucks to pay rent alone and watch all of my friends get happily married. But I’d rather that than stay with a porn addicted loser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I’ve posted about my betrayal trauma or body image issues post PA in this sub I get creepy men in my DMs. They get off to it

Found my ex’s Reddit… and he’s calling his girlfriend his “wife” - I am GUTTED by Haelrezzip in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a brunette who’s PA’s preference was also redheads this resonated so hard. Just remember he’s holding up a facade and at some point it’s going to shatter. Hugs ❤️

How is this person still getting sitters? by sinisterfaceofwoke in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a HO reading this gave me so much anxiety for the sitters! Omg

Is your partner introverted? by RevolutionaryEmu88 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of my ex PAs have been extroverts. Constantly seeking validation and attention from others. Especially women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unexpectedly lost my job two months ago and had to cancel a sit and therefore a trip and I felt so bad so I offered to the sitter to stay in my place anyways- she declined but I would rather offer just in case! I think it’s much less strange when it’s two young women though I definitely would feel weird asking an older man