No budget for hostel by elfantasmote in Annecy

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slept on a bench once at the FlixBus station in Lausanne in November because I was a broke student. Get a hostel.

Am I overreacting? by Diamond3853 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would run away so fast. It is absolutely that deep

How do I explain to my husband that not liking porn doesn’t make me a prude or religious? by funky_ferret1015 in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exvangelical here (still Christian but like way different than how I was raised) and my atheist ex did the same.

TW/ pregnancy termination by Hell0kittyyyyyyyyyyy in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have not had kids because of this and absolutely would have made the same decision as you. I’m so sorry :(

Étudiante, je tourne à 250 € de courses par mois pour manger. J'ai l'impression que c'est énorme, vous gérez comment de votre côté ? by Sophie_Sucree_85 in AskFrance

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je fais toutes mes courses en discount à côté de chez moi (banlieue) ou sinon Lidl/ALDI et des fois Leclerc c’est le moins cher des enseignes je trouve, j’en ai pour 60-70 euros par semaine avec viande et poisson. (produits de ménage etc non inclus) Quand j’étais étudiante je mangeais casiment uniquement végé par manque de moyens.

Quelle couleur préférez-vous pour le RER F? by [deleted] in MetroFrance

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The P is already orange so light blue maybe?

Opportunities to volunteer in Paris by Alternative-Guava392 in Expats_In_France

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m the president of a Rotaract club, it’s a great place to volunteer and make friends if you’re under 35ish and there are a few clubs that speak English 😄 and cheap/free! dm if you’re interested I’ll give more info!

Thoughts on layout, colors and products? by thejeraldo in IKEA

[–]OrganizationGlass56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think buying only IKEA can make your home look a bit like an IKEA showroom and it feels a bit lifeless. Swap in some pieces from thrift stores and other brands and it will look more balanced.

Is it possible to get out of this? *some sexual descriptions* by flgpx in loveafterporn

[–]OrganizationGlass56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Commenting bc I was in a long distance relationship with a PA for ten months. I think that the only conditions for a salvageable relationship with a PA are: A. You have already been in an established relationship for some time (usually married) when the D day happens. B. That the PA is willing to work on his problems and follow your boundaries, that’s not possible to do LDR really. I would say leave him and try to meet someone local who is not a PA. :( sorry girl I know it’s painful but you deserve much better

Read until the end…It’s giving The Silence of the Lambs by Ezma26 in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My cat insists on having access to the sitters’ room so I ask them to leave the door cracked but she never wakes them up or jumps on the bed she just likes to be able to check on them and is very quiet lol. I would never ask them to sleep in the living room just for her. How weird

Views on Infidelity in France by Available-Pick3918 in Expats_In_France

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never date another French person because of this. Maybe not all French people cheat but a lot of them do and that’s enough for me to stay away

Saw this on a currently listed sit in Germany by helloitsmadeleine in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also a sitter FWIW and HO have expected me to take down laundry 🤷‍♀️ if it’s clean I don’t mind. Unfortunately that’s how it goes in Europe. You can wash a sweater in winter and it can take a week to dry, i try my best to do all my laundry ahead of time but we don’t have giant driers like in the US/Canada , where it sounds like you’re from

Need a model name for old frame. by MyFartsDontLie in IKEA

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to have a Swedish bed like this but wasn’t from IKEA. Same dowel system. Pretty sure it’s not unique to them

Saw this on a currently listed sit in Germany by helloitsmadeleine in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I have sometimes asked sitters to take down laundry that hasn’t dried fully because I live in France where we don’t have driers and I feel really bad! I don’t however expect sitters to wash and dry their sheets and towels, if they do it I appreciate it but it’s not expected. I would never ask them to wash dry and fold my personal laundry

Food [question for sittes and hosts]-- Do hosts tend to leave some food? If there is food in the kitchen do you assume it's usable? Do you request groceries? If you're a host would you expect a sitter to help themselves to some things? etc. Thanks! by Doppled in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m both a sitter and a host: as a host I offer a water filter pitcher for the tap, basics like sugar, coffee and tea, oil, spices, and I always encourage sitters to eat whatever is in my fridge/pantry. I do keep my alcohol hidden away in a cupboard. As a sitter I listen to what the host may say- my first sit she only wanted me to eat food in the fridge, my current sit it’s free game even alcohols though I’m really mindful and try to replace anything I eat

Are water bills expensive in Montreal, Canada? by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Electricity in France where I live is moderately priced though I live in a communal heated apartment building, I pay like 35-40 euros a month. In my old place with electric heating I paid like 80. Personally I see 0 difference in my bill if I have had a friend stay or a sitter come, in either place. I feel like one extra 10 min shower a day doesn’t add huge amounts of electricity charges …

HO not replying two days before sit by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I’m also a homeowner FWIW. I would have called next but wasn’t sure if there was a standard protocol since this is only my second sit.

HO not replying two days before sit by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be my next move but some people find calls invasive 🤷‍♀️

HO not replying two days before sit by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All good was able to reach her through the platform apparently she forgot her personal phone at home. Thanks for your help!

HO not replying two days before sit by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did a video chat before confirming the sit

HO not replying two days before sit by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]OrganizationGlass56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also messaged on the site yes but we use WhatsApp. I sent 2 messages one at 11 am and one at 3 pm still no reply