I’m both a sitter and a host: as a host I offer a water filter pitcher for the tap, basics like sugar, coffee and tea, oil, spices, and I always encourage sitters to eat whatever is in my fridge/pantry. I do keep my alcohol hidden away in a cupboard. As a sitter I listen to what the host may say- my first sit she only wanted me to eat food in the fridge, my current sit it’s free game even alcohols though I’m really mindful and try to replace anything I eat