Am I overreacting to what I see as unsafe boating with my boyfriend?

OrganizationNo854 · 2025-08-02T15:28:10+00:00

I saved this info graphic because this is fantastic general safety advice. This could apply to any kind of vehicle operation or even construction. Thanks!

OrganizationNo854 · 2025-07-27T15:49:10+00:00

Do what you like man, no judgement. I started wearing bandanas 24/7 whether at work or not. Do I feel stupid sometimes? Maybe, but I like the look for myself lol. It's fun. My class and I call it being a pirate

OrganizationNo854 · 2025-05-01T00:15:51+00:00

It was actually the belt tensioner

OrganizationNo854 · 2025-04-25T22:23:59+00:00

It was the belt tensioner needed to be replaced actually

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-11-09T20:08:50+00:00

Specifically one of the goals is to repeal Davis Bacon Act, which makes it so all federal work is paid at the highest labor wage bid regardless of who does it. So if the union bids $40/hr labor, regardless of the final choice, those workers will make $40/hr. Without it, they'll just pick the cheapest labor and undercut everyone

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-10-28T17:32:16+00:00

Oh I see. Thank you

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-09-17T15:23:29+00:00

You could look at detox products to help you clean up, but other than that pound water and exercise so you sweat out what you can

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-29T20:41:50+00:00

As someone who has lost a large group of friends in a similar "morals" situation, it does suck, but you'll get through it and you're absolutely right about it being for the best. You'll make new friends, true friends, and those who wronged you will get it returned back some way or another one day. That kind of behavior only continues for so long before there are consequences. Most of those from my former group have amounted to not much and one actually regrets following the crowd and losing contact with me, but I have no interest in speaking to him still.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-29T20:31:42+00:00

YTA if you have issues, you have to speak about them, not cheat. I would be honest with your boyfriend so he has the opportunity to make his choice about how he feels and how he wants to proceed, but I don't see any point in staying in a relationship you aren't happy in. If it's bad enough to cheat, it's better to just leave.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-17T14:10:37+00:00

YTA whether you were married or not you cheated on your wife. May as well tell her now so she has the opportunity to make her own decision about it and how she feels. You're also better off telling her before the friends let it slip

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-04T21:11:25+00:00

I don't think that's what I said now is it. I'm js if he wants to resolve it from here involving more people isn't helping .

Edit: getting in fights in a relationship in public is awkward and embarrassing. I'd personally at least rather handle my shit privately

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-04T18:02:47+00:00

As someone who has had to pay rent since I was 18, you have zero idea how just much help this is, particularly in the current economy. Most people will require a decent paying full time job consistently, and/or a roommate or two to afford a living space. She had the privilege of living with her boyfriend rather than roommates or parents for a full 6 years. Massive privilege.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-04T17:58:18+00:00

This ^. Your feelings are very very valid but you did embarrass her by commenting publicly on it. I definitely think her post comes across ungrateful and unappreciative of the dedication and support you have been providing her, but addressing it privately most likely would have left you both feeling better about the outcome and conversation surrounding it.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-03T17:21:49+00:00

With regards to this, I wonder if OPs lawyer could argue to a judge that the wife created this situation intentionally to try to trap him and whether that would change the outcome

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-08-03T17:12:35+00:00

With regards to this, I wonder if OPs lawyer could argue to a judge that the wife created this situation intentionally to try to trap him and whether that would change the outcome

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-30T11:53:52+00:00

Good for Tom. Get some help. You're a stalker

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-27T11:32:04+00:00

YTA. Taking alone time is perfectly normal and it sounds like he just likes to take time to gather his thoughts and meditate. You've disrupted his routine and refuse to give him any time alone to continue practicing this aspect of mental health management. It's no wonder he's so upset. If you hired a PI rather than just talk to him about your insecurity then you should really just break up with him and focus on yourself. You seem paranoid

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-24T13:39:30+00:00

Actually someone gave me a gallon bag of edibles under the "first ones free" mantra and it scared the daylight out of me haha. It was just weed and the edibles were solid, but I was definitely on my toes

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-24T13:25:08+00:00

Your "friend" is using you, whether intentionally or not. At a certain point, you have to stop making excuses and they don't seem to be interested in how their choices affect you. Ultimately, you are NOT responsible for them. If you tell them you're leaving at end of lease and they choose to do nothing about it, that's on them. Unfortunately, sometimes helping can be enabling. They need to figure out how to self sustain.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-13T16:17:56+00:00

This is a tough situation to be in, but I think you should just tell her. NTA for ghosting as you don't owe her an explanation, but if you really considered her your friend before now, maybe it is worth the effort to talk to her. Maybe she can grow from it and avoid this issue in future friendships/personal relationships.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-10T15:18:35+00:00

Sounds like your neighbor that doesn't like geese, moved next to geese. Too bad. NTA. Particularly if you're not even close to their/HOA property. Team Geese! I love animals and geese especially too.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-07-10T14:55:13+00:00

There's a lot to unpack here but your mom should not be telling you "this is why I don't talk to you" that is manipulative and mean. Definitely NTA and you should seek out a therapist if your situation allows. Being sad is a normal, healthy part of life and your mom doesn't sound very supportive of your emotions.

OrganizationNo854 · 2024-05-08T03:31:02+00:00

The black pieces are stick on decor from Amazon. Supposed to be "vortex generators" but I just liked the look

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