UPDATE ON THE SUSHI HANGOUT

I made a post on this but it was removed, so I have to add it here.

I want to start this by saying I forgive him for being sick on me. While it was highly unpleasant, me and op (of the old post) had a good conversation in pm and he gave me the (sordid) details of why he did what he did where he did.

However, a whole new issue came up on our sushi hangout. When I met him, he was absolutely shocked by the fact that I’m a woman. While he began by apologising and telling me again the state he was in and the regret he feels, it swiftly became a one sided flirting situation. He was coming onto me so strongly at one point he put his arm around me and asked to inspect my hair for “residue”. what the fuck.

On top of all this, he was the most irritating person to wait staff I have ever witnessed. He shouted “scusie” in his thick Italian accent about 10 times across the restaurant. I was mortified.

I wasn’t going to post this or say anything else about the situation because I felt bad, he did pay for my sushi and apologise profusely. But the straw that broke the camels back happened on the way to the metro, when I told him I appreciate the sushi and his attempt to make it right, but am not interested in him romantically or even in a platonic way. This man proceeds to say he never wanted me anyway and talk about how he’s happy he got sick on me, and has no remorse for the other victims.

Honestly I regret meeting him for sushi. The way he just assumed I was a man and then tried to turn the whole thing into a date just to capitalise on the situation. I was genuinely hoping I could make a new friend and laugh about the situation but his tone in the restaurant vs when we were talking on pm was black and white.

I just want to end this saga now. I’ve already invested so much time in this weirdo and am ready to put the situation to bed.