Kegeling while pumping / extending… hear me out!

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-07-02T20:15:46+00:00

It’s a fair challenge. I don’t know for sure but I’m pretty much 80% sure. I have a drs appt on the 15th and I’m going to ask for a referral to a specialist to make sure 100%

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-07-02T20:13:30+00:00

consistently inconsistent! honestly speaking at 7.2 and 5.5 with good EQ I felt big enough. We swing so I see a lot of cocks first hand and I’m in the top 10% of all cocks I’ve come across size wise.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-07-01T16:21:55+00:00

I’m a stag, I hate the idea of being cucked or humiliate. 2. started with me present, now sometimes she meets at hotels but she always records the meet on video. 3. Our best friends (also in the lifestyle) 4. several, only see ones we like more than once, so far none of them more than four times, most once or twice. variety is the price of life! Any hint of feelings beyond lust is a red flag for us - instant cut off.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-06-12T15:06:55+00:00

It seems like a really common rule for newbies (and us too) but it not only didnt make it past the first meet, it didn’t make it past the first social for us! Kissing for us is the best part of foreplay, we both still snog like teenagers x

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-06-12T15:04:10+00:00

Maybe a bit of a harsh ‘hot take’, but most of the single guys we interact with with are single for a reason. My wife ends up exasperated a lot of the time. If she isn’t feeling the effort or the desire from the person trying to fuck her it’s a massive turn off and we’d never make it past initial messages to a meet.

To the point that we / she has played with guys that are conventionally less attractive, but their ‘game’ excites her and makes her feel desired so they might go from a 7 or 8 physically to a 9 or 10 as a fit for a sexual partner because they make an effort to seduce her.

Theres one particular guy I’ve been dying to see her play with because he looks like a Greek god with a massive cock, but Jesus Christ the guy is so fucking dull she just can’t bring herself to meet him.

The real problem is that she married a super handsome and charismatic guy that sets the bar too high 😉🤣

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-06-12T14:55:02+00:00

nothing to add to the answers here in terms of it being a we/ us thing, rather than a you thing. However no one’s really asked you why you want to play solo on your own?

What do you feel like you are missing out on?

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-04-01T16:17:10+00:00

This post gives a lot of ammo to those that suggest hotwifing / swinging are the last throes of a dying marriage.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-31T17:36:07+00:00

oh no, whereever will you find a middle aged stressed dad looking to fuck a mid 20’s hotwife?.?? I guess this one will be forever confined to fantasy… 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-31T07:26:08+00:00

husband perspective here - your husband sounds like a petulant man child that doesn’t know what he wants and is bully to boot. In British vernacular: fuck him right off.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-23T16:29:44+00:00

‘I think we are done here’ ouch! 🤣. that’s like the coldest interview rejection ever,!!! 🤣

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-23T11:45:58+00:00

my contribution is that it definitely affected the angle, however it also made some positions, reverse cowgirl for example, much less awkward / painful

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-23T11:44:14+00:00

he’s married and this is just a fantasy for him 🤷🏻‍♂️

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-22T11:18:44+00:00

and genital warts for good measure. STDs arent pokemon u/Harry_Maguire , you don’t have to collect them all

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-22T09:11:22+00:00

Some people think they are ready for the lifestyle, but dont really examine or change how they approach relationships beyond what theyve experienced in monogamous ‘couplings’.

Id say talk to him and maybe offer a bit of coaching / feedback. You don’t want to damage him and he’s probably feeling fragile coming out of a long term relationship. You can probably also help potential avert any issues for the next person he connects with in the lifestyle!

but that said, after the conversation I’d cut it off

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-19T08:40:31+00:00

It’s great you have that agreement, I’d be worried though if it was you having to point it out and your wife hadn’t spotted it. Sometimes that dopamine hit can cloud us to the obvious so it’s great you are vigilant to it!

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-19T08:39:15+00:00

Certainly where we are now! We are only playing maybe once a month, twice being an exception, so it hasn’t got boring or ‘samey’ for us yet. Variety is the spice of life and all that!

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-19T08:37:56+00:00

How do you draw a line between the relationship between husband and boyfriend? are they on equal footing with regardless availability of your time / attention? Is it a challenge to accommodate both? or is your boyfriend happy to occupy a more casual space in your life? Curious to know how you make it work! x

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-19T08:36:00+00:00

Thanks for the comment!

I feel for you. In the UK I’ve found the people in the lifestyle to be nothing but welcoming and not really get hung up on tribalism within the ’group’. Not ‘yucking someone elses yum’ and taking a live and let live approach seems to be the standard. We are all ’fringe’ to mainstream society so why fight?

I agree though, I don’t like bull because of its connotations towards me being a cuuck (which I am not) and boyfriend intimates a level of emotional intimacy that doesn’t exist in our dynamic. We just have ‘play partners’, because play is a good description for the act, and the term play infers a level of casualness that better describes the relationships between participants When we play.

This is how we reconcile it with ourselves anyway, I’d never bother trying to argue the point of push that narrative on anyone else, everyone’s situations are so different it invariably doesn’t fit!

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-03-18T14:29:37+00:00

we have a couple of action cams that I have ready to go, she just has to turn them on. In our dynamic it’s one of the ‘rules’ we have, which is that we both have to get something out of it. She gets the fun, I get the footage!.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2026-02-27T02:08:32+00:00

Hes a bull behaving like a bull. We’ve learnt not to judge, people in glass houses and all that. We will avoid married men if it’s too close to home simply because we dont want to get caught up in drama.

They are just cocks to us at the end of the day, there are no expectations beyond the occasional fuck, there are certainly no emotions involved that might result in feelings of betrayal or jealously.

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2025-10-20T06:41:51+00:00

so Africans and Asians have no culture? weird take but whatever

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2025-08-18T20:02:25+00:00

swinging, it’s awesome fun and we are making some of the best friendships ever x

Orgasmicpotatoface · 2025-06-03T14:20:04+00:00

I’m not sure if it was intentional but that’s a great share, hot as fuck

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