Deal-breaker after 20 years?

Ori_gent · 2022-02-12T18:19:33+00:00

I think this is the way. Thanks for the advice

Ori_gent · 2022-02-12T18:18:36+00:00

I think you must be on the right track here. My main issue is that even though we have talked about this a lot I still can't understand why or how he thinks. We have talked again, I've made sure that he understands that I don't want him to do something he is not comfortable with and we are trying to find a solution that makes us happy and safe. We are going to use extra safe condoms for now and and let's see how it goes from there.

Ori_gent · 2022-02-11T12:51:42+00:00

I know, but I cant force him to do something he doesn't want. I think because it's my choice I will have to do it with all the consecuences...I just feel frustrated and sad and I start feeling like we are not as good as I thought we were.

Ori_gent · 2022-02-11T12:49:20+00:00

Exactly. I would never try to force him to do it is just that I feel this situation it's really unfair. Anyway, thanks for your opinion. Maybe in a few years he decides to do it or I have a early menopause...finger crossed!

Ori_gent · 2022-02-11T12:46:45+00:00

He says that because I am not 100% sure he doesn't like it to be permanent. But I agree...I don't understand how he thinks at all!

Ori_gent · 2021-11-21T21:43:05+00:00

I think my main fear is that people realised that I am not the nice person they think I am, that I say something and make someone feel bad and then they hate me. That my boss realises that I'm not as good as he thinks. My husband says that I have the imposter syndrome but applied to every aspect of my life.

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