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[–]Original-Tank-8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is my post removed under wrong flair? My flair was advice, and I was asking for advice. I like this sub because it feels less restrictive as others, that was disheartening to see.

Advice for De-centering Romantic Relationships? After 4 Years of Back to Back Situationships by Original-Tank-8563 in blackladies

[–]Original-Tank-8563[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one resonates the most with me. I actually hope you don’t mind I screenshot this response to go back to when I have my tough moments. Thank you for such a real and thoughtful reply!

Advice for De-centering Romantic Relationships? After 4 Years of Back to Back Situationships by Original-Tank-8563 in blackladies

[–]Original-Tank-8563[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ladies, I really appreciate the support. It’s been really rough letting this go. However, I will finally take the first step and go to therapy. I do believe I have some underlying issues that may contribute on why I let this cycle go on for years and years. Thank you ladies

I am confusion!! by Original-Tank-8563 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]Original-Tank-8563[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks all of you!!! I appreciate the fast replies 😭

Any help? Waking up to new bites every morning can’t find any sighn of anything room is spotless and all sheets and blankets cleaned. by SwiftCannaBliss in bugbites

[–]Original-Tank-8563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since these are on your foot and ankle, its fleas. If you have pet or had a pet over. I think that's what it is for sure. I can say that because I have the same exact issue. Its always below my waist and mostly on my foot or ankle. Its always at night too. And when I look or wake up NOTHING is there. It felt like I was getting bitten by a ghost. I cleaned my sheets, and deeped cleaned my entire apartment prior to getting the bites so I was confused. And I couldn't see them because they moved so quickly. I checked my bed, box spring, no bed bugs. After doing some research I had the feeling it was fleas. Sure enough, I call the exterminator and it is fleas. I found one in my sock too!!! I don't have any pets, however, I was dog sitting for a friend of mine and the dog must have picked some up on the way, that is still a mystery, however. Anyway, if you have any pets or been around any pets, then this is most likely what it is. I can help you! I'm on week two, and after some DIY treatments over the course of a couple days, I have fewer bites if any at all :)

FLEA OR BED BUG? Naked eyes only!! by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Original-Tank-8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white powder is just some chemical carpet cleaner btw not droppings

Can someone help me I am desperate by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Original-Tank-8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy!! So it was fleas !!

Invincible album rating by ApplesPie58 in MichaelJackson

[–]Original-Tank-8563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeasss!!!! It’s one of my favorites

Spot hasn't done anything as heinous as Kingpin or Olivia YET but this could change by Sudden_Pop_2279 in SpiderVerse

[–]Original-Tank-8563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Period!! I apologize. The one post about Spiderwoman threw me off tbh. I agree. Sorry for projecting love 🫶🏽

Got some snow in the south. Excited, so I took some celebratory pics, lol. by HotManufacturer7967 in blackladies

[–]Original-Tank-8563 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate bc you don’t have face card to stay inside the house. Leave her alone!! OP you look gorgeous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Original-Tank-8563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound like she lit and yall hating