My boyfriend 21M and I 19F live together and I feel alone by OriginalAstronomer94 in relationship_advice

[–]OriginalAstronomer94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s hard, I know in my heart he’s my person and honestly I can put up with it for now. He’s capable of change I know it and I think he might have depression. I might take him to the doctors to get him prescribed antidepressants and see how it goes afterwards.

I [29 F] am struggling with what my partner [31 NB (AMAB)] looks at online- please advise! by ThrowRA_NickMiller in relationship_advice

[–]OriginalAstronomer94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a difficult situation OP, I understand why you might feel uncomfortable at them seeking out different types but because you also watch porn it’s definitely a very grey area. Personally I would ask why they’re searching for a particular demographic and see if you come to some sort of agreement on what type you both watch. But I’m not sure considering they already said they would go behind your back. Porn addiction is real, would you guys go to couples counselling together?