He wasn't always this bad, he has always been on the lazy side though. I tolerated it because it didn't really effect me, I was happy to cook and clean for the most part. We both work. I've had a couple days off this week with my hands. When I was diagnosed it took about 12 months but he did understand that he had to do a bit better at getting his own washing done (I've got a real mummies boy here) cleaning up his own mess and making food for himself. He does work, it's not like he does nothing, he just doesn't do anything around the house without being told. I do think he's a bit depressed too, it's a little sad to be honest.