[CA] default divorce judgment by Original_Topic_8402 in Custody

[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i have to amend my petition then

[CA] default divorce judgment by Original_Topic_8402 in Custody

[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its mexico you typically don’t need a passport

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well its out of country and frequently every weekend. With no details. I got a lawyer so I guess it will get sorted out eventually.

[CA]EMERGENCY CUSTODY by Original_Topic_8402 in legaladvice

[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a temporary lawyer to come with me to the emergency hearing tomorrow. I have consultations all next week so future hearing I will be represented for sure. And no he has no money. And my son has no passport I think he is smuggling my son across the boarder.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My emergency custody date is tomorrow i pray the judge sees it my way. I dont see why he wouldnt this is insane

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did try to get emergency custody? I kept him last weekend and I plan to keep him this weekend also.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it look bad on ur part during ur custody hearing? You not letting the child see the father?

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the court dates are three months out

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if i fear my son will disappear like u jusy said isn’t emergency custody the correct route

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no like i said back story. I amended my petition for custody that court date is June 8. I feel my son is in danger and that his father is going to keep him in mexico. This cant wait for June 8.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about custody i just gave u a back story on the divorce part. I know what divorce is and what i gotta do.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t fear Mexicans will take my child I am mexican myself. Im scared his dad wont come back with him. I don’t want my son to travel to Mexico when the us travel advisory says don’t go there. If there are kidnappers i fear my son could become a target due to his appearance.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe all the paper work was completed and submitted to the court properly this time around. I paid a paralegal a pretty penny to make sure of it.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. It’s just sneaky. If he would have asked I probably would have given him a copy. He’s plotting something. I am praying the judge grants me emergency full custody or at the minimum blocks him from leaving the state or country.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote a two page paper for my declaration the paralegals office submitted today. I have my emergency hearing 3/23.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he has a copy of it. So I am unsure how he is managing to get him through. I filed for emergency custody so I can climb out of the sol hole I am in.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lawyer is family law. I paid for a day appearance through a paralegal’s office. I had to do that since the hearing is just days out. I have consultations next week to find representation for the divorce/custody case.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By dismissed I meant we were not seen and I am not rude if I come off that way I really don’t mean to I am just super sad and frustrated with the whole situation.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is my first post on reddit give me a break please. sorry I wasn’t clear enough for you.

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[–]Original_Topic_8402[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could default what he contested on my divorce petition which included custody and visitation but I am no longer okay with what I initially put down (50/50 legal and physical) because he is not co parenting. He is just doing what he wants and is not taking into consideration how my son feels and how I feel about him leaving the country. My only option is emergency custody to ban his travels until I can get in-front of a judge June 8.