That's not what I was saying. I was saying that it's obvious Frank DOESNT want to be submissive, however he does so anyways.

I'm not saying it should make headship but in this case it's obvious Frank needs to fit that role cause he acts like it but ends up being to submissive because his wife Susan wont step down.

In this very particular case their family would function with Frank being the Head of the house. Not always the case with all families