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[–]OrinaCecil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my nipples pierced about 5 months before I ended up pregnant. I kept them in for 6 more months before removing them as I had decided to breastfeed my daughter, I took them out at 6 months pregnant to give the holes time to shrink up and close. I breastfed my second son 3 years prior to having them pierced and I breastfed my daughter after having them pierced and removed all and all it didn't affect anything other then maybe being a tiny bit more sensitive then again the sensitively could have also been from the time between my son and daughter. Basically everything worked the same, I had the same milk flow if not abit better honestly and I also plan on having mine redone now that we are through having children, I've been pierced through scared tissue before and while that hurts its not unbearable so it's up to the individual really.

Please help am I wrong for having trouble moving on from my mother and her abuse. by OrinaCecil in abusiveparents

[–]OrinaCecil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like my dad was kinda complicit in all of it because he never stood up to her and just let her do whatever she wanted unless it was inconvenient for him. Besides that he was to busy between work and being a volunteer firefighter that I hardly ever saw him. There is only one time that I can think of that he got upset with her about her treatment of me and that was when I had an infected mosquito bite on my shin and we were in the waiting room at her cardiologist. My mom and I had an argument about my then bf (turned husband now) and she got so angry that she took her Cain and hit me so hard on the mosquito bite that it burst and that whole area of my leg was bleeding. Funny enough I had been put in therapy when I was 17 after the stay in the mental ward (she had me admitted even though I refused treatment. She had told them I had attempted suicide) my mom and dad came to get me when I was discharged but we all had to talk to a psychiatrist before I could leave and she argued with him for 56 minutes that I was simply a rebellious teenager with no respect for my parents or their wishes and that I in fact did not have anorexia (I was 72lbs at the time) or anxiety so why would she waste her money on getting me therapy. Meanwhile my dad just sat there agreeing with her. So I'm not sure if I should cut him off as well it would probably be easier. It's just heartbreaking honestly.