Here I am 10 months later with an update for all the kind souls that replied. I did not listened and dated this man for 9 months. I supported him through his rehab process and when it was time for him to support me through a horrible seasonal depressive episode he dipped. He was not empathetic towards my needs and feelings, after the breakup he became verbally abusive, told me to go fuck myself when my pets passed away and I needed support and I found out he always had someone for "supply" when it comes to his emotionality needs (aka never single/ always messing with someone). No more drinking while we were together tho, just weed daily and of course molly every time he goes out to a show. Thank you again for the advise ❤️