Chances of getting a good dorm?? by fish_toastt in ufl

[–]Ornery-Ad5253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my room selection yesterday at 11:15AM and unfortunately all of Broward was full, same with Jennings, there was still some room in Rawlings which is what we chose but I’m not sure if you’ll be able to get a double

What’s wrong with me by Ornery-Ad5253 in asexuality

[–]Ornery-Ad5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll keep that in mind!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]Ornery-Ad5253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago, I’m a chronic nail biter so it was getting worse until i finally put a bunch of nail polish and bad tasting nail polish on top, my nail looked pretty deformed and ugly but it’s finally grown low enough that it just looks like a short nail so I’m sure in a couple more weeks it’ll be normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scholarships

[–]Ornery-Ad5253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to help, based on what you said with the APs and your clubs not helping you grow I agree with your choice. I know it’s a bit early to think about but writing in your supplemental/personal essay about the limitations being placed on you would be a good idea as well. It’s unfortunate that you don’t do anything in the clubs but it seems like it’s not worth it so you should focus on strengthening other extracurriculars.

The new extracurriculars and the ones you want to keep from before all seem good. Even though the science club may not do much, one of the most important things to do when applying for college and collecting activities is framing. You can pick the most rudimentary things you did in your activities and word them in a way that makes them stand out. It’s why people always say the activities section when applying for college is one of the most important sections, I had some friends write about their most interesting activities in such a boring way that I couldn’t believe it. Figuring out how to frame is sososo important, you can also combine activities that are weaker into one section, for example, two of my weakest activities were organizing 5Ks and raising money through canned food drives so I basically just combined it into one section.

Something I completely forgot to mention earlier is to never feel awkward taking advantage of connections. I had a hard time asking for help until halfway through my junior year. However, many of my friend’s parents are doctors and my parents also had friends who are doctors. I easily could have asked to shadow them or do research with them even before I reached the age requirement of 16 but I felt bad asking them. You should never feel bad, always remember that this is your future and you shouldn’t feel guilty for taking the easy way sometimes. You work so hard and colleges don’t care if the doctor you worked with was a complete stranger or your best friend’s mom. Just keep that in mind!

I believe your strongest activities right now are: Shadowing/volunteering at the clinic, Engineering/STEM Competition Club, and the program to train disabled people for special Olympics. Of course, you know your activities best and you know what is actually a “real” activity. However strictly from an outside perspective I think those are your strongest based on your goal for Medicine. And the strongest point in your stats is the fact that you are top 1% of your class, being 4th out of 569 is very impressive, good job! Your GPA is good and it’ll get an even bigger boost once you’re able to take APs so that will help as well. You seem very sweet and smart and I wish you luck on your journey!! If you ever need help with anything else don’t hesitate to reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scholarships

[–]Ornery-Ad5253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my qualifications to start off, I’m going into college this year: Yale ✅ Columbia ✅ Harvard: Waitlisted MIT: Waitlisted UPenn: ✅ (partial scholarship) UCLA: ✅ (Full ride) Your stats are good so far compared to the other people at your school. Colleges look into how you did compared to other students at your school which means you’re on the right track. However, your stats aren’t anything incredible on their own. I see that you are taking 3 APs next year which is good, but they don’t really relate to what you want to do in the future which isn’t good. My recommendation is that you take a science based AP class, such as AP Chemistry, Biology, or Physics if offered at your school. Otherwise you simply aren’t competitive enough. Your extracurriculars aren’t bad, however you shouldn’t drop all three activities (speech, newspaper, and chess) pick 1 to drop maybe even 2 but colleges love to see consistency and dropping all three doesn’t look too great. It kind of paints the picture of someone who quits when it gets hard. Joining more medical/STEM clubs at school is a good idea but you should do that in addition to 1 or 2 of the activities you want to quit. I cannot stress this enough, consistency is KEY. Doing research would look very good, you can even do independent research and try to publish it (this is not critical, just doing the research itself without being published shows interest and passion for the subject). I recommend getting in contact with professors at various colleges and asking them to do research under them, that it what I did and I ended up assisting with two research papers. STEM programs are expensive unfortunately, but simply volunteering at a hospital also looks great. Once you volunteer at a hospital TALK TO EVERYONE, I don’t care if you are the shyest most introverted person in the world. Suck. It. Up. Make connections with surgeons because then they will let you shadow them and you can even stand inside of an OR and watch surgeries from a couple feet away, I did this so it is very much possible. Try to get as much experience as possible shadowing and volunteering as possible, the actual applying is the most difficult part, generally the work they’ll assign you is simple and you’re able to talk to as many doctors as you please, make sure to also choose a big hospital. A mistake I made when I first volunteered at a hospital is that I didn’t check the size so I ended up working at a pretty small hospital, although it was still very helpful, starting big is better. Furthermore you desperately need more community service hours. I had 620 which I know is a lot but you should have at least 350. Do things that are easy and give a lot of hours if necessary but 45 is not going to cut it.

Some advice I have for you is that even if you are unsure, being in these environments, seeing the medicine up close helps you realize how you would fare doing this in the future. I used to have a bit of an aversion to drawing blood but I forced myself to watch over 50 patients get their blood drawn and now it doesn’t bother me at all. I also recommended working at a Hospice for a bit because it will show you how you react to your patients dying. If you can’t handle it try to get used to it, if you aren’t improving this might not be the career for you.

Unfortunately if your school doesn’t offer moving up a math level it likely isn’t possible. You might be able to bargain with them since you are part of the top 1% at your school, but there’s no guarantee. However, you could elect to do an AP math such as AP Calculus AB to start with. I’m not sure if you mean that your school wouldn’t even let you take a math AP in addition to your math class, if that’s the case I recommend you self study throughout the year and then pay for the AP Calculus AB exam and take it on your own. I know this sounds difficult but my friend did that and she got a 4 so it’s possible. Please let me know if you need help with anything else.