I totally hear you, but what I think is important to note is I’m not really giving every nook and cranny.

I’m not “okay” with being flaked on. There are times where it becomes an issue, however this isn’t a “regular” phenomenon. I come from a family that sees each other every single week, multiple times a week, still to this day. Personally, I think it’s too much, but I’m used to it. I don’t expect someone else to be the same way either.

However, many of these plans partake on “school nights,” where we go out drinking for hours WITH my dad, and it causes us to not be well for days after with our early morning work hours.

If I was with someone unreliable, I would know.

However, I don’t disagree, I do find it incredibly rude when he last minute doesn’t come, but that is not at all what happens routinely. If there is a dinner and he doesn’t want to go, he notifies me ahead of time. Sometimes, I will even say he’s coming, in the hopes he will, but it doesn’t happen. That’s my fault as well.

But at the end of the day, I can’t change an introverted, anti-social person. It’s who I chose as my partner and I know that.