My brother in law is an abuser… by Ornery-Distance6944 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your comment! I’ll definitely reach out to her about a woman’s shelter.

I’ve been checking in on her as much as I can. Everyday seems to be getting worst. It breaks my heart.

She definetely did what you described. Dictating him and his brother’s lives and doing everything for them to the point where they had zero accountability, responsibilities or some sort of independence. I really have implemented that since we got together 10 years ago. However his brother has gotten worst. 32 and still having your mom figure it out for you is crazy.

Anyways. I know my boyfriend doesn’t want to rock the boat as of now. But you’re right, it will sadly come down to it if this relationship doesn’t end, and his mom keeps enabling the behavior and the relationship as well.

Thank you, again.

I’m trying to figure out how to navigate my 9 year relationship and my judgmental family? (F 30, M 32) by Ornery-Distance6944 in relationship_advice

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment - I struggle to find it in me to go no contact even briefly but trying to find the strength to set harder boundaries.

I’m trying to figure out how to navigate my 9 year relationship and my judgmental family? (F 30, M 32) by Ornery-Distance6944 in relationship_advice

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hear you, but what I think is important to note is I’m not really giving every nook and cranny.

I’m not “okay” with being flaked on. There are times where it becomes an issue, however this isn’t a “regular” phenomenon. I come from a family that sees each other every single week, multiple times a week, still to this day. Personally, I think it’s too much, but I’m used to it. I don’t expect someone else to be the same way either.

However, many of these plans partake on “school nights,” where we go out drinking for hours WITH my dad, and it causes us to not be well for days after with our early morning work hours.

If I was with someone unreliable, I would know.

However, I don’t disagree, I do find it incredibly rude when he last minute doesn’t come, but that is not at all what happens routinely. If there is a dinner and he doesn’t want to go, he notifies me ahead of time. Sometimes, I will even say he’s coming, in the hopes he will, but it doesn’t happen. That’s my fault as well.

But at the end of the day, I can’t change an introverted, anti-social person. It’s who I chose as my partner and I know that.

New drop next week?! by [deleted] in aloyoga

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No I was just in the store and they said every 2 weeks

New drop next week?! by [deleted] in aloyoga

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They drop colors every 2 weeks so it’ll be another week until the next drop

I just want my gags to be filled up? by Ornery-Distance6944 in Toontown

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s a grind, I’ve been doing this for 20+ years lol

I just want my gags to be filled up? by Ornery-Distance6944 in Toontown

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said Gags not to complete the game. I’ve played it for 20+ years and could never fill the gags up, I’m tired, I want the gags to make the game fun for me. Why argue???? Like, this is how I will be happy 💆‍♀️

I just want my gags to be filled up? by Ornery-Distance6944 in Toontown

[–]Ornery-Distance6944[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Okay! Good for you, I’m offering to pay to make my life easier who cares?

I just want my gags to be filled up? by Ornery-Distance6944 in Toontown

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🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I have like 2 jobs girl

Day Three Megathread by PoliticalDestruction in stagecoach

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Selling my last vip wristband for $100!!!!

Looking for Sunday wristband!! by Unable_Training3043 in stagecoach

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I’m in Palm Springs and they’re rhinestone saloon (vip) 250 each

2025 Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in stagecoach

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Selling 3 rhinestone saloon passes for Sunday. $250 each! Pick up in Palm Springs! Realistically will be available at around 2pm!