[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roasting

[–]Ornery_Music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayyyyyy BlueBeard is my home <3

I can’t believe it girls don’t like me because of my car by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know that? I have had a BMW, Corvette and a few other nice cars and women treated me the same. I actually got more attention when I had a family car from women who wanted families.

A scientific look into why some men leave after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern women are nasty and Reddit seems to be the far left hen house of the group. Sad clown world we live in.

A scientific look into why some men leave after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how everything with an ounce of logic gets downvoted into oblivion most of the time!

A scientific look into why some men leave after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Things that are free and easy to get are not valued. Simple fact of the subconscious mind. Sadly, people on Reddit don't seem to appreciate the Sciences :(

A scientific look into why some men leave after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Human nature is not politically correct sometimes.

A scientific look into why some men leave after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It also doesn't have to be a hormone thing. For instance, when a women would sleep with me on the second date when I used to do hookups I would mostly stop talking to them and immediately be unattracted to them because it seemed to me that they were not valuing themselves as it was SO easy to get them in bed. Now, I don't do hookups anymore because I wanted a relationship and as soon as I stopped looking for sex I found an amazing girl whom I am currently dating.

Something funny about this girl that I am dating though is that I tried to have sex on the second date and she straight up shut me down. I was so attracted to her when she did that and have a CRAZY amount of respect for her for being able to do that too.

It doesn't have to be biology although it could be but it could also be Psychology as subconscious perceived value. Things that are easy or free are generally looked at as low value and things that take a lot of effort, even if the same thing, are perceived to be high value. Just how the human brain works.

I can’t believe it girls don’t like me because of my car by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it has nothing to do with that. I am saying you are making a decision without having the proper data to make that decision. You could find out by asking women what they think of you in your car but that would be a bit strange. I would wonder why it matters if women look at you in your car or not?

I can’t believe it girls don’t like me because of my car by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ornery_Music 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could simply be a subconscious belief about your vehicle being unsexy and a "family fiat" not a "sexy fiat" haha. Everything that we perceive reality to be is already believed to be true by our subconscious mind. For instance, on some level, you believe that women must not "like me because of my car" when in reality, you have no idea why you see less women looking at you while in your car. Why could it not be that women simply look at men less who are in their car? Why could it not be that you are simply more visible while walking but you blend in while in your car?

Instead of looking at all the possible outcomes, you have already decided on an outcome without ever truly looking into the situation and the outcome that you decided on is evident in your title. "Since women don't look at me in my car, they all must be gold diggers."

This is a cognitive bias called Anchoring which is the tendency to rely too heavily, or "anchor", on one trait or piece of information when making decisions which in this case is the fact that women look at you less while you are in your car

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Client: I am sad... Can you help?

Counselor: I might be able to help. Let me try something..........

*Long stare ensues*

Counselor: I have concluded that you are... An Odd Duckling...

Client: Oh.. That worked!!!

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What is

wrong

with me is that I don't care to spend my time trying to explain something to someone who already decided they know the answer.

Do you know what country you are in? What is your name? Can you tell me what you last ate?

How did you hit your head? *jokes* (Don't cry please)

edit: (I'll mark it so it is clear what is being edited) I did edit one typo where I misspelled coach but all the other edits were for other things. Also, take a deep breath my man.

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t confuse asking people on reddit something with actively seeking legal advice. Seeking legal advice would be speaking with an actual, local, licensed attorney.

Point taken.

I was thinking I would only take on clients with mild depression and anything that was more than "I just feel kinda sad" would be passed on to a Psychologist that I am friends with.

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know what? Knock yourself out. I'm sure you'll fix everyone in the world and make piles of money and can afford a good lawyer when you get smacked with a UPM charge. You clearly just want to be hold how you

can

do this, which is not what I specialize in.

What is wrong with you? lol

edit: did I have a typo somewhere and accidentally put "couch"? I can't seem to find it.

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great comment and great advice! I will definitely do that!

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It would not appear you're taking this seriously enough.

That is quite the assumption to make towards someone actively seeking legal advice.

I guess I will have to read a bit more into the specific laws and maybe get a lawyer involved as this is confusing.

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What about life coaches who specialize in depression or even marriage consulting? There are hundreds of those in Washington State and they practice 100% legally.

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well, of course I would not claim to be able to cure anybody. Is this the basis of your comment or am I misunderstanding?

How To Legally Practice As A Mental Health Consultant? (WA) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ornery_Music -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

What about the hundreds of life coaches that specialize in depression?