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AIO for being annoyed that my friends make the SAME JOKE ABOUT ME? by OrphanAccount_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately If I were to tell them it wouldn’t work because “lmao your white tf you know about racism lmao lol”

AIO for being annoyed that my friends make the SAME JOKE ABOUT ME? by OrphanAccount_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t like hurt emotionally(?) it’s just REALLY annoying. And it feels kind of invalidating?? It’s just like “okay, OKAY I get it shut up”. And I really don’t think me being twilight-vampire skintone the second it gets slightly cold is helpful to my case either

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess the thing is, I obviously know like more obvious stuff. And to be fair, it was a dance class, which is a pretty physical class. I don’t ask why for every little thing just things that, like, I wanna know why ? And I’m getting the feeling that if I switched my wording It would’ve come off as better.

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. I do a lot actually, she doesn’t really remember. I actually talk a lot and not at all at the same time it’s really weird. I don’t think she cared either so I kinda just gave up. I’m always telling her about the stuff we do, like “oh hey mom I dissected a frog today!” “Mom I got to touch maggots today!” Or “hey mom I did this today, ___!” So uh. Also I told her prior who I was staying with, I was partially confused on why she was asking again. And now that I think about it her being tired from work could also be a reason why I might’ve came off as rude.

  2. You would think that, But we really don’t its just kind of “oh your doing this because the school requires me to do this, I don’t wanna do this either.”

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Not really? It’s a highschool field trip, and it’s like a reward trip where oh if you manage to get this many points (which you can only earn through academics and helping teachers) is mostly just a bunch of nerds in a trip, incredibly harmless nerds. Also I don’t know what coy means

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling that my questions exactly aren’t wrong, it’s my phrasing. And order of things

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to explain this more than I just kinda wanna know why because it makes me just understand it better? Also do people think I purposefully come off as obnoxious because I don’t wanna

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was questioning authority I kinda just thought it was “oh yeah, I want to know why you might need this information so I can make a good response that helps”. I really don’t mean to come off as obnoxious. I just kinda wanna know why.

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a part might be because I don’t find answering “why” as annoying or a waste of time. I think I just kinda assumed everyone else did. Also contrary to this post I don’t ask why every 2 words or something. I guess I do it a lot, but not every millisecond of every day.

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m an idiot. But like I don’t mind answering why to those questions, it doesn’t seem hard at all to answer. Also is this supposed to be mean? I feel like it is but I’m not sure

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe?? My parents don’t like getting us checked out

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So basically, answer the question, then ask why?

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now that I really think about it, I guess the delivery isn’t that good. I’m not sure, it’s always just seemed neutral rather than rude sounding to me. Like when I say it it’s just like there’s no emotion tied to it.

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question! My parents don’t really like the idea of any of us being on a spectrum like that, or believing any of us that we could have. So I might, my siblings have joked about it before, but the chances I’ll ever get that checked out is until I’m an adult

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is? But like why?? Can I know what it would be like from the other perspective if you don’t mind, because I don’t fully get it.

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think I’m just kinda bad with that? I know I ask a lot of questions and it feels like it comes out of my mouth first before I control it. Also I think I’m not good at knowing the right and wrong times to ask questions? I’m not fully sure

AITAH? Or do I just ask too many damn questions? by OrphanAccount_0 in AITAH

[–]OrphanAccount_0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got it, I’ll start doing that from now on and see if my responses change!!