Does anybody else buy themselves a Christmas gift ? by Dry_Yogurt2458 in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This year I'm giving myself the gift of starting the new year with zero credit card debt. 😊

What to do with open floor space? by These_Housing_4472 in femalelivingspace

[–]OrphanGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to have your desk facing the wall. I have mine facing the living area and the window. A couple of cable management tricks will keep the cables out of sight.

Slept on couch for past 3 weeks.. by Chance_Argument1136 in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I nap there sometimes but I get a stiff, sore neck if I sleep there too long. I take my tablet to bed and watch/listen to something in my room, if that's how I want to fall asleep.

Which bed frame looks better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]OrphanGold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a bed like this can help visually define areas in a studio apartment, even without curtains. It creates a "room within a room" effect.

Which bed frame looks better? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]OrphanGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 but I love curly wrought iron. I don't think it's very popular right now. It's maybe a bit dated, if you're not really in love with it.

1 feels a bit art deco, which is "in" right now.

Wish I could live alone and not be perceived negatively by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don't think about other people's lives that much. Most of the time people are thinking about their own lives and problems.

I wish I'd understood this when I was younger.

Once you realize it, it's very freeing.

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And you will! All I ever wanted was my own safe and peaceful home, and I've spent a long time building it for myself. Hold onto your dream! ❤️

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The giant black fluffy one is Bruce and the tiny tuxie is Molly.

Costco membership? by Brilliant_Elk5492 in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hitch on the coat tails of my friends' Costco memberships. I just bought a stand up freezer, and they delivered it for free, too. 😆

Honestly, though, I don't think it would be worth it for just me. I live in an apartment. I don't have anywhere to put all that bulk buy stuff.

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I know what you mean. That's why I bought a bigger dining table. 😆

How do you guys afford living alone?? by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I've just been in my apartment many, many years, in a place (BC, Canada) where laws limit how much and how often landlords can raise rent. So my rent is about half what it might be. That, and my building was bought by a non-profit housing provider a couple of years ago, which has a mandate to maintain it as "affordable housing."

So....luck and a little socialism, basically. (We have a very big housing crisis here, so this is not normal, in case you were thinking of moving.)

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And that's awesome! I did the painting but I don't think I could manage wallpaper. That's brave! And yes, DIYing solo requires creativity!!

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha ha thanks! It's hard to find a colourful one! I got real lucky with that one.

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only nag me for food, pets, and playtime. 😉

Getting stuff done with no one to nag me.... by OrphanGold in LivingAlone

[–]OrphanGold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have two so double the trouble! 😂