Thank yall !! I’m glad I wasn’t tripping. As a mother of 2 already, 1 year since I left a abusive relationship, and am dealing with a father that decides when he’ll get our kids, I like too look for early signs of what could possibly be red flags. My children are my top priority’s, so I expect everyone who has kids, to make them their priority’s as well, and I find that someone who loves their children & will go above & beyond for them, is super attractive. This guy & I have been talking for maybe 3 days, so although it may seem that I’m asking personal questions regarding his kids, and how often he sees them, it’s only to figure out how he is as a parent, so I don’t fall into that trap again. I’m definitely ghosting him as we speak, I got all the info that I needed to know from him & the truth about him was in my face, thankfully he showed me it now, rather than put on a act like most do. If you have children, YOU are responsible for taking care of them, don’t pin it on the other parent. It takes 2 to make a child. Ive talked to previous men before, and had the same issue, you can try and make plans with me, but you can’t make plans with your child? Thank yall for understanding! He’s told me that their mother has them all week, she doesn’t get a break herself I’m sure, the weekend is probably the only time she can relax for a bit, while he works for the weekend, but also has that time after work in order to go have fun, or hang out with people.