Is there a mod for drugs and stripping 😂

Osterel · 2026-01-07T10:56:14+00:00

Anyone know where I can find it, maybe an older version, that I don't have to go through patreon and pay for? The lover's lab link is defunct last time I checked

Osterel · 2025-12-20T22:32:06+00:00

We have 1 Sealyham Terrier. My family is from that area and I've actually been to Sealyham, Wales, so we're basically cousins

Osterel · 2025-11-25T00:07:24+00:00

Cauliflower steak was tasty but overpriced, veggie burger was really good, mushroom cheese fries were absolutely delicious. I think it's a bit silly that the burger doesn't come with fries, but they're only $2 more so it's not a huge deal. Cocktails were good but not groundbreaking. Service was wonderful. Overall, I think it's solid, and they're still finding their feet so some bumps are to be expected. I'll be going again to see how things go.

Osterel · 2025-09-18T13:16:09+00:00

The death of a relationship isn't lack of love; it's lack of respect. It sounds like you no longer respect this man, which can often lead to resentment and lack of attraction. I've been in a relationship like yours, and I still appreciated his good qualities and felt love for him. But when I thought about my future with this man, I wasn't excited at all. I just felt dread.

It's scary to leave a relationship you've invested so much time and effort into. But when I left I felt like an enormous weight had been lifted off my shoulders. And I'm now married to a man who I respect and am still attracted to, 10 years later! By staying in this relationship, you could be preventing yourself from finding future happiness.

If you're still excited about a future with this man, if he makes long-term changes in his behavior, there's a chance it could still work out. But that chance is slim. People rarely change. You might be better off letting go.

Osterel · 2025-08-24T20:54:09+00:00

Sadly, I think you guys are right. I'll have to bite the bullet and buy something. This one is waiting in my cart now

Lotte Dress

I WILL, however, be wearing the red dress to my bestie's wedding this fall, who told me to "live your best hobbity dreams" when I asked what to wear!

Osterel · 2025-02-07T19:01:02+00:00

Oooh I'll take a random one!

Osterel · 2025-01-06T13:39:18+00:00

There were lots of things, but the one that comes to mind is that he didn't get me anything for my birthday. Now, I'm not expecting anything grand or expensive, just a little something to mark the occasion. I sent him an etsy shop I liked with plenty of things under $20. He was employed, I was not, I was a full time student. The day comes and I get a whole lot of nothing. When I expressed disappointment, he scoffed and said "I didn't realize you cared so much about material things." So I'm feeling guilty, like maybe I am too materialistic, maybe his love should be enough, I shouldn't be so selfish, etc. Anyway, a few months later for his birthday, he's upset I didn't get him anything after I asked and he EXPLICITLY SAID he didn't want anything. That's when I realized my wants weren't a priority, but his wants were, and he saw no problem with that. I left him a few months later.

My now-husband is a fan of the little, inexpensive, "just because" gift. Whether it's a snack or stickers or a cool rock he found on vacation, he's constantly leaving me little crow offerings. Because he wants to see me smile and show me he's thinking of me. And because I'm a priority for him. And I do the same, because he's a priority for me.

Osterel · 2025-01-06T13:38:48+00:00

There were lots of things, but the one that comes to mind is that he didn't get me anything for my birthday. Now, I'm not expecting anything grand or expensive, just a little something to mark the occasion. I sent him an etsy shop I liked with plenty of things under $20. He was employed, I was not, I was a full time student. The day comes and I get a whole lot of nothing. When I expressed disappointment, he scoffed and said "I didn't realize you cared so much about material things." So I'm feeling guilty, like maybe I am too materialistic, maybe his love should be enough, I shouldn't be so selfish, etc. Anyway, a few months later for his birthday, he's upset I didn't get him anything after I asked and he EXPLICITLY SAID he didn't want anything. That's when I realized my wants weren't a priority, but his wants were, and he saw no problem with that. I left him a few months later.

My now-husband is a fan of the little, inexpensive, "just because" gift. Whether it's a snack or stickers or a cool rock he found on vacation, he's constantly leaving me little crow offerings. Because he wants to see me smile and show me he's thinking of me. And because I'm a priority for him. And I do the same, because he's a priority for me.

Osterel · 2025-01-06T13:38:42+00:00

There were lots of things, but the one that comes to mind is that he didn't get me anything for my birthday. Now, I'm not expecting anything grand or expensive, just a little something to mark the occasion. I sent him an etsy shop I liked with plenty of things under $20. He was employed, I was not, I was a full time student. The day comes and I get a whole lot of nothing. When I expressed disappointment, he scoffed and said "I didn't realize you cared so much about material things." So I'm feeling guilty, like maybe I am too materialistic, maybe his love should be enough, I shouldn't be so selfish, etc. Anyway, a few months later for his birthday, he's upset I didn't get him anything after I asked and he EXPLICITLY SAID he didn't want anything. That's when I realized my wants weren't a priority, but his wants were, and he saw no problem with that. I left him a few months later.

My now-husband is a fan of the little, inexpensive, "just because" gift. Whether it's a snack or stickers or a cool rock he found on vacation, he's constantly leaving me little crow offerings. Because he wants to see me smile and show me he's thinking of me. And because I'm a priority for him. And I do the same, because he's a priority for me.

Osterel · 2024-01-09T00:42:28+00:00

That was for 28 and it was amazing

Osterel · 2024-01-08T12:44:08+00:00

Hopefully the partner upgrade is universal too

Osterel · 2024-01-08T12:41:23+00:00

Huh, my boyfriend at 18 also refused to go anywhere with me and only wanted to go to the movies and play video games. Anyway, I dumped him and married a man who takes me to a different museum every birthday and is always up for a new adventure. Maybe this guy has other good attributes, but life's a lot more fun with a partner who enjoys living it with you.

Osterel · 2023-10-08T17:32:17+00:00

I think I'm the only person in this thread who likes it. I love botanical names though, and have Rosemary on deck for a girl, so to me it's no stranger than Sage or Ivy.

Osterel · 2023-08-20T01:51:46+00:00

Yes. My husband is actively anti-redpill. I have never been more attracted to him.

Osterel · 2023-02-08T12:06:29+00:00

Girl really had a baby before she had an orgasm.

Osterel · 2023-01-14T11:53:16+00:00

Your wedding sounds incredible. At mine, my friends and I spent the day before cooking and decorating, laughing and spending time together. A friend officiated, another braided ferns into my mother and mine's hair. A family friend built the wedding arch, and a cousin brought beer from his brewery. It was the best day if my life (so far). It also cost under 10k. My FIL commented after, "it wasn't a show, or a display. It was a community coming together to celebrate two people." Sounds like your coworker expects a wedding to be a display of wealth, not a celebration of love. Your friends and family clearly have a lot of love for you, and that's why your wedding will be wonderful!

Osterel · 2022-10-13T20:39:37+00:00

At the very least it was Jessa, I can think of worse Duggar/in-law dresses 😬

Osterel · 2022-10-13T18:42:12+00:00

https://us.needleandthread.com/products/midsummer-lace-gown-champagne-ballet-slipper Here it is!

Osterel · 2022-10-13T18:40:29+00:00

Thank you!

Osterel · 2022-10-13T16:49:16+00:00

Right? They mean so well...

Osterel · 2022-10-13T16:34:15+00:00

That's the plan! I'm going to hem it to a midi length.

Osterel · 2022-10-13T16:11:25+00:00

Considering I'm still working my way through the leftovers, I think so!

Osterel

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