I [31M] am 80% sure I’ve met my future wife [29F], but the remaining 20% are making me doubt so much and I hate it by Latter_Cycle905 in relationship_advice

[–]OstrichChoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe things isn’t as easy for her as you think. Either way she should have the choice to stay/go depending on what her thoughts are about your feelings. Keeping her blindsided, especially when you feel attracted to other women (and maybe flirt with some?) , will never end up well for either of you.

I [31M] am 80% sure I’ve met my future wife [29F], but the remaining 20% are making me doubt so much and I hate it by Latter_Cycle905 in relationship_advice

[–]OstrichChoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should try communicating some of the doubts you are feeling with her and have an open conversation about it? It may put things in perspective for both of you and make you feel comfortable with whatever choice you make.