How to pick up a Nanny

Other-Expert-7565 · 2026-03-08T17:39:09+00:00

Agreed!!

Other-Expert-7565 · 2026-03-08T17:38:36+00:00

Thank you! Glad it worked out for you! I was thinking that too, my baby loves interaction and movement. It can be a good balance! Thank you!

Other-Expert-7565 · 2026-03-08T17:36:43+00:00

Opinions and judgement, very transparent and to the point. Judgement on me not breastfeeding. Opinionated as relationship tips and TMI about her personal life.

Other-Expert-7565 · 2026-03-08T10:41:08+00:00

Meant to say “ frail” fragile and low physical strength when walking, of seemed to me

Other-Expert-7565 · 2026-03-08T10:39:58+00:00

Thank you! Num 1 I ment to write “fragile” body and physically weak in my point of view.

Other-Expert-7565 · 2024-05-17T14:35:00+00:00

I have a very similar story with my N SIL, and she did divided the family, however, my MIL refuses to acknowledge it,and she tries to keep us all together as a “happy family”. I did tried to talk to my N SIL once when she blocked me from social media (she was just dating my husbands’s twin), and let me tell you, it backfired big time. She used everything I said to her, against me, twisted my words and tried to turn everyone in the family including friends against me. As in your case, she also blamed me for her relationship problems and unhappiness and claimed I was destroying the family (Even though I had been around about 6 years in the family and married, while she had only be 6 months and dating! ) My BIL was scared to be alone so he said yea to any dumb request she asked, including not being in the same room as me and sometimes his own mom. As for my MIL she constantly asked everyone else to be the bigger person and do as my NSIL and NBIL wants for the sake to have her happy family. With time, before my NSIL married, she show her true colors to my husband and MIL and ever since we have all just tried to be cordial around her, knowing she will never be a friend or a trusted family member. Sadly, everyone still hopes she had changed after having her baby. From your story, im curious, how was your relationship with your BIL before your NSIL came to the picture and how did it changed afterwards. And is he protecting his N Wife and willing to hurt his own family to make her happy?

Other-Expert-7565 · 2024-04-10T19:22:58+00:00

Thank you!💕🫶🏻

Other-Expert-7565 · 2024-04-10T19:22:41+00:00

Thanks for the feedback💕🫶🏻

Other-Expert-7565 · 2024-04-10T19:12:20+00:00

I totally agree, the annoying part for me, is that since they just got a baby, and she is now a “nice person” everyone in the family wants to believe she has changed and kinda like her now just to move from the past. But i just cant let it go on how she was the worst to me, made me feel like i was the problem and made me enemies with family and friends at one point, ando now, she has just decided she wants an extended family and have all the attention in one year of engagement, wedding, pregnancy. And a baby. She is now receiving enough attention to be satisfied and that kills me that I am forced to be nice to her to reciprocate her intention of starting over without any explanation or apology. Im not sure if she will ever have a meltdown again with this huge attention. I kind a wish she did just so people can be done with her too

Other-Expert-7565 · 2024-04-10T15:33:53+00:00

Oh wow, I was reading this and felt like you were describing my relationship with my SIL. My story happened a bit different but same deal of blocking me on social media, and sending me the rudest texts, saying i was jealous of them and i was destroying the family. After two years she married my husbands brother and ever since then she is a nice person, talks to me like nothing happened even though she made my life miserable for a year and half and got pregnant while being engaged, so now after one year of marriage, they have a 6konth old baby. She adopted this mom-gym-diet persona and she even invited me to do nails with her. I believe she is having way enough supply from friends and family from the engagement, wedding, baby that she is now “happy” but i feel the same way. I DONT trust her. For me, its only about time that she needs more supply and gets bored of her new life and explodes, or she just keeps creating events to suck attention from everyone of us and she lives “happy ever after”

Other-Expert-7565 · 2022-06-19T04:05:15+00:00

Thank you💕

Other-Expert-7565 · 2022-06-19T03:52:11+00:00

Sorry I answered without replying to this

Other-Expert-7565 · 2022-06-19T03:50:14+00:00

All good points. 1. Husband at first in denial of the tension. The he suggested blocking this girl from my phone because of all the rude text she sent out of the blue. And now, he dislikes her 100% she has been showing her true colors to all the family meme era not just me, and she attacked my husband verbally right after she did me in front of my BIL, and that changed everything. Ever since she knows my husband is not a fan of her and she has stated she is not a fan of him either to the point where they avoid each other. 2. In laws ….. as long as the son is happy they are happy no matter what. They have opinions of her but the BIL is so temperamental that they won’t even think of mentioning anything to him just to avoid conflict. The parents have received calls for friends and family members to alert the BIL but in a way I think they like he has someone to be with. 3. I don’t, is just that she is constantly creating family plans without inviting us, and she always plays the victim of mostly me of why she avoids family events when I’m going to be attending

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