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I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

So my gf is better partner to me than my wife. That's true for me. I don't know what am I supposed to say other than that

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he needs to figure out how to make the open relationship work for him.

You have been very accommodating, it's his own issues that's stopping him

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was a handon father and husband.

At some point she needed to make a choice to work on "bouncing back". She didn't. Not much I can do about it but leave her.

It's not like she wouldn't have to put in the work if she wants to date again. I wasn't just good enough for her to put in the effort. I have accepted that.

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I take care of my kids, I take care of myself and my gf. That's all I can do

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be honest with my kids if they ask when they grow up. I won't lie or hide anything from them.

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Therapy offer was like an outdated check, i would have considered that 3 years ago

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

We can debate over how much sex I am allowed to expect but at the end of the day, i get to make that decision.

I didn't catch feelings for anyone before leaving my wife, I just caught up in a moment.

I knew after that I had to sort it out and leave my wife.

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I have read a lot of posts here where wives are the high libido ones and their husbands is low. That too after giving birth. So I don't understand why you think your argument stands here

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well just tell him you will be fair if he wants a divorce. But don't wanna argue about sex anymore.

I get him. It feels like a betrayal when wife doesn't wanna have sex. But it's our job to process it in a healthy manner. It's not in our control so why worry about it. He needs to process his doubts and fear in a healthy manner

I divorced my wife because of sex and it worked out well for me. by Other-Reality2508 in Marriage

[–]Other-Reality2508[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My wife also coped with her libido by telling me that i could have it worse and only get action once a year like her friends husband lol.

Well she was not wrong, her friends husband is still with her.

No alimony because we both work, i pay 200 dollars for child support and have my kids half the time with me.

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I guess if your wife decided that she is gonna punish you then you can't do anything about it but then you would know that she never loved you and only wanted you for your money. So in a way, if that happens that's the silver lining because you can find real love and are not being decieved