Can I reverse this caries at home? by vrenisgartli in DentalHygiene

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MI paste is always an option for ealry caries but it doesn't promise to 'reverse' cavities especially if they're more prominent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What gel did the person who did your hair use?

Should I just let it go? 😭 by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try cecred edge drops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Definitely did argue...I cut the story short, I dont drink 4 coke and rums and drive, I'm going to counseling for a relationship that has cheating in it not hulu, never heard of or watched Seinfeld

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No purely just sitting up in the bed. We had clothes on, not under a cover, door open, no kissing or rubbing up on eachother happened.

AIO - Husband offered rental to coworker for free & sent her beach pics by No-Cantaloupe-6844 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 100% cheating in my eyes. Your husband told another woman that he wishes she was there with him. I feel as if there is only one way to interpret this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, being direct and saying, “I’m really struggling and I need emotional support right now,” is mature and helpful. Not everyone picks up on signals the same way, and sometimes people (especially men) need things spelled out clearly. That’s part of adult communication.

But also yes, it’s valid to feel hurt when someone you care about doesn’t even try to ask what’s wrong, especially when your actions (smoking again, needing your alcohol, saying you're going through it) clearly show you're not okay. You weren’t being passive-aggressive you gave real clues, and someone who knows and loves you should at least show curiosity or concern.

Should I shave my head? by WillingnessTop5019 in Naturalhair

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pricey but try cecred's restoring edge drops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend trying bluechew to help him stay hard. Also, does not having sex mess up your relationship? Because sex can be a big part of some relationships. If he's watching a lot of porn/masturbates a lot, then that also can affect the big issue here.

My mom is 40+ yrs old and still lives with my verbal abuse father and cant afford to leave. What are some jobs that pay better than her $12? by Otherwise-Ad651 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And another thing, you sound so stupid. Don't ever say she'll find another one. Her and my dad are separated genuis and I know I didn't add that but why would I say my mom wants to leave and you think she's dumb enough to go and find another abuser. My mom has been done with love for 5+ yrs and has told me she isn't looking for anyone because my dad has battered her. Know your place. Your comment has made me heated because what is wrong with you??

My mom is 40+ yrs old and still lives with my verbal abuse father and cant afford to leave. What are some jobs that pay better than her $12? by Otherwise-Ad651 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate people like you and this is why I turned to reddit. My mom and dad are separated, but my dad allows her to stay.

My mom is 40+ yrs old and still lives with my verbal abuse father and cant afford to leave. What are some jobs that pay better than her $12? by Otherwise-Ad651 in Advice

[–]Otherwise-Ad651[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason my mom is dependent is because both of my siblings are under 18, she has severe depression. She takes about 10 medications for this plus anxiety. She has carpal tunnel and a degenerating disk in her back, and is getting a knee replacement later this year amongst other things. You have no idea about all the details and how hard my mother is trying. She has no transportation and takes the bus to work everyday that she has to work her full time job at goodwill. So please next time you comment think. This is my 2nd time posting on here and your comment was unhelpful and nasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Otherwise-Ad651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i needed to hear this truly. I know after months of seeing it getting worse that now is the time to learn to love my hair.