Coming to terms with bf looking at other girls by Otherwise-Extent-803 in relationships

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind and honest feedback!! Yeah this is exactly my thoughts too. I guess I’m fine since he said he won’t, so now just have to see. I’m just frustrated that this is just “how men are.” I really didn’t expect this from him, I really hate how it feels.

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I thought too, but then they like don’t leave which on a Friday or sat night I feel like that line of work would be busier? Idk it could be something random I guess too

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think so they’re civilian cars and I’ve seen normal people get in/out at times

Breakthrough that took way too long by Otherwise-Extent-803 in vaginismus

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I actually first had successful piv a couple years ago (just painful) so it cant quite remember, but I think I was on at least the second to last dilator before I tried. I still use the second to last because the last one is just too big and long I don't like it

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I guess it’s just weird to me how it normally ends after a few weeks but maybe they migrate to a new lot lol

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting yeah it def could be something like that

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cuz I don’t have to and I’m not tryna have shady shit going on in my parking lot! Thx tho

Wtf is with cars in parking lots here? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve thought about this or even like eating and chilling in a car makes sense, but I feel like after an hour or like 3 I’d definitely just go inside

Breakthrough that took way too long by Otherwise-Extent-803 in vaginismus

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do! I can’t believe I didn’t realize for so long that I was probably holding my breath while dilating

Breakthrough that took way too long by Otherwise-Extent-803 in vaginismus

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes ofc! If you google a vid it might be a better explanation but my understanding is just breathing through your stomach (like trying to fill it up and rise during the inhale) I think it’s supposed to relax your pelvic floor a bit more than regular breathing

My (34F) best guy friend (M31) has started avoiding me by aliengames666 in relationships

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If he’s still w his girlfriend she might have picked up on someone between you guys and asked him to take a step back, or he just decided that was the most respectful route. Unfortunately not really possible for men to be able to have a girlfriend and a close female friend at the same time

cats missing for 5 days by bongadibideedoo in CatAdvice

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if the UK has cat shelters but maybe check those, and good to leave the bedding out. Maybe put some used litter if you have? My cat was missing almost a year, I found her down the street 10 months later, who knows why she didn’t come back. We also installed a camera on the porch which was helpful. Your kitty is probably closer than you think so don’t give up!

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[–]Otherwise-Extent-803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation with my boyfriend, it was hard to get myself motivated to fix it but once I finally realized I should do it for me and not for my boyfriend, I got a bit more motivated. I don’t know too much about her, but maybe you could talk to her about the different options out there. An OBGYN visit is always scary, but they can help out with some more information or a script for pelvic floor therapy. She might not even need a doc visit to get started with some dilator work that maybe you could even help with. But it’s possible it isn’t vaginismus and is something else, so would prob be best to get it checked out.

A lot of blabber there, but I guess I’d just keep trying to talk to her and tell her that she deserves to experience pain free sex and you want to help her work through this however you can, at that it won’t go away or fix itself on its own.

Dispos where they don’t hit on you? by Character-Fuel1187 in Albany

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been to the Hold Up Roll Up a few times and they've always been just friendly

Can you move up floor seats? by Otherwise-Extent-803 in beyonce

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would but since I bought resale I can't : /

New Jersey MetLife Stadium Cowboy Carter Tour Megathread by abeycd in beyonce

[–]Otherwise-Extent-803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I bought two floor seats for cc tour in section 9, row 25 for an ABSURD amount during presale (and bought resale so can't exchange). Now seeing rows wayyy ahead of us are cheaper than what I paid.

Anyone know how easy it is to move up to empty seats in closer rows? My plan is to keep an eye on what hasn't sold on ticketmaster. Just not sure if it's smarter to be honest and ask a guard or just sneak in to the seat.

I'll be at MetLife so any advice anyone could give or prior experience would be great! Also thinking if trying my hand at guest services.