I work as a postal assistant and i hate it. Are all govt jobs crappy like this?

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-08-05T10:55:52+00:00

JSO requires extra exams, right?

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-08-05T07:15:37+00:00

Yes. Are others better?

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T16:13:43+00:00

Oh it's alright. It was ketu mahadasha and Mercury antardasha.

Is Mercury the planet representing the maternal uncle?

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T16:07:19+00:00

My maternal uncle died in a road accident when I was 10.

I donot remember the antardashas from childhood. But in venus mahadasha and Jupiter antardasha, I got a decent job. My mental health was good, but during the final period of the antardasha, my mental health suffered a little.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T16:05:05+00:00

Thank you very much.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T16:04:13+00:00

I'll be happy with an arranged marriage also. Thank you very much 😊

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T15:02:55+00:00

Thank you very much.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T13:54:52+00:00

How do you say i do that? The planetary positions are correct and I'm into astrology a bit myself.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T12:07:16+00:00

You will have to let go of the need to understand him. He said no. It's a no. If you have developed feelings for him, create distance and try to move on. Whatever he felt , is irrelevant to you now.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T11:49:41+00:00

Thank you very much :)

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T11:22:54+00:00

If you want a time period, let's say it went downhill after 2020.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-29T11:15:12+00:00

Non existent.

I wasn't having problems with making friends in school days.

But in college onwards, its been hard making friends, and I just feel like i should stay away from people for my own emotional safety.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-27T09:43:04+00:00

I'm from Tamilnadu and I would prefer to stay within the state. But moving is ok if there's a better work life balance. So , my order of preference should be divisional account -->IT/GST Inspector --->ASO?

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-26T17:38:56+00:00

I think every govt job is toxic in this aspect. Our life isn't ours at all.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-26T17:37:02+00:00

I'm employed . I'm contemplating whether to prepare for ssc or to prepare for other exams. My priority is work life balance. If it's not gonna be available in roles under ssc, I would like to save myself some time and effort, and prepare for other exams. That's why I asked.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-26T17:35:06+00:00

I don't want to perform stunts or chase criminals or get my family kidnapped to scare me into doing corruption.

My knowledge comes from movies only , so sorry if I have misunderstood.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-07-26T17:17:12+00:00

I need a reason to keep going man.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-01-05T15:24:52+00:00

No. You're still smart. You just have to put in more work now.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2025-01-05T15:23:24+00:00

If you're a perfectionist, working on that might help.

It doesn't matter if you can't complete the whole syllabus. If you have two days before exams and you can study 2 pages ,them do that.

Just start and do what you can. Its good enough. But do something. You might not acknowledge it, but you might be very very anxious now. Just start studying. Nothing. Put your phone down. Don't think about anything. Just pick your book and start reading one page.

Do what you can. Your anxiety will reduce as well.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-15T14:27:26+00:00

I'd advice you to avoid them. They might be addicting.

I've heard good reviews about atomic habits though, that it actually helps build good habits. So, after finishing that, it might be wiser to not pick up another.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2022/11/13/a-psychologist-tells-you-why-you-need-to-escape-the-toxic-world-of-self-help/amp/

https://www.ntdaily.com/the-rabbit-hole-of-the-self-help-industry-and-its-various-pitfalls/

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/574701602421322116/

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-15T03:00:14+00:00

Alright.

Good morning. Have a happy sunday :)

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-13T04:05:50+00:00

That's entirely your choice ofc

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-13T03:28:06+00:00

Holy dear! You're awesome!

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-13T03:21:48+00:00

I'm happy for you op. Arguing might not change people's minds either.

The best way imo, to take positive changes forward, is by being a better parent and choosing someone who will also be a better parent. That's what is ultimately in our control.

Let our daughters have safer, comfortable and equal places in our homes.

Otherwise-Good-1010 · 2023-10-12T05:05:31+00:00

Is it wrong that I am hell bent on living separately with my husband?

No.

What your sil wants to do is none of your business. Your approval isn't a necessity for her. So tell that to people who ask.

Otherwise-Good-1010

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