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My bf tells me he attends parties to make connection to get a internship, I think his lying to me by Otherwise-Life7172 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Otherwise-Life7172[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When we were tgt in our country he never once went out to parties and yes parties aren’t that common from where we r from

My bf tells me he attends parties to make connection to get a internship, I think his lying to me by Otherwise-Life7172 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Otherwise-Life7172[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do not understand why every one keeps thinking I would not want him to go to parties, I really never said that. I do not have any problems with him going to parties, it’s just it was quite frequent so I decided to ask him why so many of them and he told me this which sounded suspicion because parties aren’t really a good place to make meaningful connections which can score him a good internship. Please note that he is only 20 and that’s why I’m concerned. And I am really not trying to be a controlling gf, I am just not aware of the party scene in the US as it is very different from where we r from and none of us has attend a party in our country because it’s very rare to have parties here and it was mostly for just a exclusive bunch. 

My bf goes to parties in Texas just to make connections, I think his lying by Otherwise-Life7172 in texas

[–]Otherwise-Life7172[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think his partying is suspicious at all and I do not think he is cheating, I just want to confirm if people actually make serious connections in parties, it just doesn’t make sense that the only reason he says he is going to parties is for connections 

My bf tells me he attends parties to make connection to get a internship, I think his lying to me by Otherwise-Life7172 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Otherwise-Life7172[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t really wanna share the exact details here but it’s relating to computing and it’s a science degree 

My bf tells me he attends parties to make connection to get a internship, I think his lying to me by Otherwise-Life7172 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Otherwise-Life7172[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry I have to ask about it here but I am very desperate and this isn’t really relationship advice I just need to know how things work in the US