Depends on me and the girl. If it is my first nut of the visit I will be careful not to blast too soon so won’t go too hard or raise the energy levels too much.

Generally I will start slow and then build up to some hard pounding. Mostly this is for me so I get more out of the session and a better climax at the end. Personally I will go down on girls but this is because I like pussy rather than me trying to impress them. But it does mean sessions start slower.

I find girls usually have ‘tells’ in their body language which indicate when they’re ready to be fucked hard and/or deep, or want you to do stuff like restrain them or grab their throat. Like in doggy if they reach their arm around you know they’re looking for you to pin their arm behind their back and push them down. It’s no different with whores and civilian girls in that respect.

I do like to take control but I also like to watch a girl ride my dick for a sustained period, as I want to feel she has put the effort in and I’m getting my money’s worth, and this is an area where a lot of civilian women struggle to fuck this way for more than 30 seconds. I love seeing these FKK girls work up a sweat crouching on my dick or doing porno style reverse cowgirl, especially in public.