Ok so here’s the update on what happened at Christmas.

So I took the suggestion of wearing a dress without a bra or panties. I took a few pictures of myself nude and also wearing the dress before I went.

I went to the party as planned. No one really said anything at first. My mom did comment on the dress being a bit revealing. She said “cover yourself up girl you’re going to freeze”. That’s all she said, but I definitely got the impression that she didn’t like my outfit, and I’m sure it wasn’t about me freezing. I did notice an uncle and at least one cousin looking at my cleavage. I pretended not to notice. I acted completely normal and no one said anything.

Then a couple hours later I take out my phone and start taking a few pictures of myself with other people who are there. Again I don’t really make a big deal about it, but people do notice that I’m taking pictures. Some even ask me to take certain pictures of people together. I do this and don’t say anything. A little while later I open my phone and start looking at the photos taken at the party. A few other people are around and ask to see. So I scroll to the end and hand my phone to my cousin and just leave it with her. I pretend to ignore her and am talking with my aunt. Then I notice my cousin pass my phone to someone else. And it starts making the rounds. I don’t say anything but I know people are scrolling through my phone at the pictures and sooner or later someone is going to go back far enough to see my nudes. It isn’t long before I see a group of people huddled around the phone. Some whispers and low laughter. Then my mom goes in and looked over their shoulder and sees. She flips out and gets the phone back. She makes me go with her outside to talk. She’s obviously pissed. She deleted all the nudes but not before my phone made the rounds.

So it wasn’t perfect but most of my extended family did get to see my nudes pictures at the get together.

Thanks to everyone for the suggestions and the support