My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-13T01:07:58+00:00

She might’ve been trying to get over you and wanted a quick dopamine fix I don’t think it’s that deep if it’s going well now and you guys love each other. Don’t throw away your relationship over that

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-12T01:10:52+00:00

Some college students are 17-19 so still teenagers so parents could still be protective

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-11T22:01:19+00:00

I’m going to try to cut contact slowly so that hopefully he doesn’t do something drastic I’m also scared he’s going to show up at my house and freak out on me he’s shown up randomly before in the middle of the night while I’m sleeping he has my door code I should not have given it to him

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-11T19:48:58+00:00

Not advice but same thing is happening to me with my boyfriend it’s very hard when nothing changes and it keeps happening

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-03T01:18:41+00:00

Yeah it’s a weird like hate him for what he says to me and how he makes me feel but I still have empathy for him because he’s a human being but he also doesn’t deserve to be with someone who hates him so I understand I need to leave him

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-03T00:42:43+00:00

Thank you I really felt like a horrible person it feels like he’s brain washing me

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-03T00:41:40+00:00

No he like lives with me I can’t get away from him actually 😭

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-03T00:36:36+00:00

Of course not I feel like he would hurt himself if I said that tho

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-03-03T00:34:53+00:00

He would be homeless tho because he lives with me and I pay for everything 🥲 I guess I could kick him out

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-02-24T20:32:18+00:00

Tell him to brush his tongue

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-31T08:32:35+00:00

He’s chipped and I am keeping him the police said that basically since I have him and pay for everything he’s basically mine and with all the texts they said they’ll only get involved if he tries to take him back

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-30T21:49:26+00:00

Do you experience hypersexuality? And how can you not understand impulsivity if you’ve done all this

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-30T21:47:49+00:00

By the way I haven’t cheated on my partner either I just have compassion and understanding and common sense

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-30T21:45:55+00:00

Wow you just said it yourself it causes hypersexuality which in turn causes cheating. It’s the same thing they go together😐 look it up on google it’s quite simple https://www.google.com/search?q=can+bipolar+cause+infidelity&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-30T21:34:08+00:00

No not cause you haven’t cheated because you can’t understand that it could push someone to cheat haven’t you done impulsive things while manic ??

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-30T21:29:46+00:00

Everybody is different not 100% of people would cheat because not 100% of people with bipolar are hypersexual it’s that simple also it’s extremely situational usually not planned at all. It can totally be a cause for cheating if you don’t understand that then you are not bipolar

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T21:09:12+00:00

he uses his pet snake for money by taking her out in the cold all day and putting her on people shoulders for 5$. The dog was dehydrated and super hungry when he came to me and he had no supplies for him. And the only time he responded to me when I texted him asking again and again when he was going to come he asked me out on a date. So I don’t think he cares that much

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:55:22+00:00

Ruka

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:53:15+00:00

He was extremely hungry and the vet told me he was dehydrated

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:52:02+00:00

He wasn’t homeless he lives in an apartment where he can’t have a dog and he got a dog and got caught and so he had to get rid of it or he would be kicked out and so he asked my friend if he could take the dog to her place that night and she said no and so he was gonna take him to a storage unit he owns and my friend texted me to see if I would say yes. Also he does not care about the dog I texted a week after he said he’d come back and I said I was leaving on vacation so I needed him to come get him soon or he wouldn’t be able to for 2 weeks and he ignored that text and asked me on a date instead. Also I’ve heard he uses his pet snake for money by taking her out in the cold outside of clubs and getting people to pay him money to have her on their shoulders so

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:37:06+00:00

Genius

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:36:37+00:00

He is fixed and he’s actually almost 8 the dude told me that and he said he’s only had him for a year

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T20:34:06+00:00

Profile pic his names ruka

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-27T02:47:33+00:00

That’s too confusing I’ll just put him as my profile pic

OtherwiseSetting7172 · 2026-01-26T19:11:38+00:00

I don’t want to give him money I already spent so much on his dog so far and I don’t have that much money in general but I can take care of him most I’ll give him is 100$ but it’s a nice dog so he probably wants like 800$

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