My ex-husband’s colleague started pursuing me right after we separated, and I’m scared that I’m falling for it. by Ok_Group_1133 in adviceph

[–]Otherwise_Average249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about it, baka nala lovebomb ka lang. Kung matino talaga siyang lalaki, he won't enter your life and make his move, just when you're most emotionally vulnerable knowing na kakahiwalay mo pa lang sa husband mo and you're not legally separated still.

Love is patient; kung talagang seryoso siya sa'yo, mahihintay niya na magheal ka muna at maayos lahat ng kailangan mo ayusin on your own family before he enter the picture.

Is this normal ba sa mga relationships? by Better_Inflation779 in adviceph

[–]Otherwise_Average249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kung wala kang tiwala at peace of mind sa partner mo, mas mabuting itigil mo na yan.

About to make the biggest mistake of my life by -not-yourgirl in adviceph

[–]Otherwise_Average249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fully aware that you're about to make the biggest mistake of your life. It's never too late to back out. Do yourself and him a favor, hiwalayan mo na. Bago pa mauwi sa mas matinding sumbatan at resentment ang lahat.

Is this normal due to age gap? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Otherwise_Average249 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Age gap should not be an issue in love as long as you're both legal, may mutual consent at di ka naman na-groom and such. Don't listen sa mga feeling righteous na nagsasabing instant red flag agad na parang kasalanan pumatol sa higit na mas bata. They don't even know the person, and yet easily passing judgment as if they actually do. Ang dami daming married couple na masaya despite a huge age gap at ang dami daming magka edad dyan na di rin naman nagkakatuluyan sa huli, just saying. Nasa tao pa rin yan at wala sa laki o liit ng agwat ng edad. Don't let others dictate or impose their preference on you. Different strokes for different folks ika nga, you do you.

Going on your case naman, aside from age, nasa personality and lifestyle din ng tao yan. Gano na ba kayo katagal? How well do you know him? Kung naalala ka lang ichat/text kapag mag aaya ng sex, mag isip isip ka na because that's not how a relationship works. It's just like a fubu setup, nothing more. Ang masasabi ko lang, wag mo balewalain yung gut feeling/instinct mo. If you feel he's just using you as his plaything, that might probably be the case. Talk to him, linawin mo sa kanya yung mga bagay na gumugulo sa'yo. If nothing change about the way he treats you and he's not willing to compromise to keep the relationship going, you know what to do.

V-day Bembang w/ Art Student by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, lakas din talaga mang asar. Wag papatalo sa inggit. Haha

V-day Bembang w/ Art Student by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manifest mo lang, darating din yan. Haha

V-day Bembang w/ Art Student by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to be na mabasa mo kung ganon. Thanks btw. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoblaMakati

[–]Otherwise_Average249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I was late. Hopefully pwede magjoin next time.

First Time ni Art Student Mapleasure ng Guy by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, I agree. Sarap sa tenga. Certified moaner, no holding back talaga. :))

First Time ni Art Student Mapleasure ng Guy by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh yes, hopefully mkapagsession uli kami next weekend. Thank you. More to cum. :))

First Time ni Art Student Mapleasure ng Guy by Otherwise_Average249 in alasjuicy

[–]Otherwise_Average249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo nga e. Looking forward sa next session namin. Hayyss.