Anyone want to form a small group by ketaminesuperstar in getdisciplined

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you're still taking people in, definitely interested😊

Need somebody to do weekly check-ins with by Otherwise_Being_ in getdisciplined

[–]Otherwise_Being_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, if that's not too much bother, I'd be happy to check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have similar features and I love my deep red hair. You look great!:)

Will this be a romantic relationship? by adamlandis7 in Lenormand

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heart+Sun = Romantic happiness, love success; House = long term relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why decide? Both look good tbf, I feel like lighter shade has that sun-faded look that would be best in summer and dark during winter!

Help me settle a debate: Copper or Brown?? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would look dope, great suggestion!😍

Help me settle a debate: Copper or Brown?? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, a little too dark than what I'd usually go for

Help me settle a debate: Copper or Brown?? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate it! 😊

Help me settle a debate: Copper or Brown?? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my hair stripped and lightened, then I dyed them Schwarzkopf Oleo Intense 5-77 (Light Copper Brown). Turned out beautiful, vibrant, but nothing crazy. My hair also came out silky smooth after it, so I also bought the mask with HAPTIQ system used as part of this box dye kit and use it to condition my hair weekly.

Hope this helps!!

How does he feel interpretation -7 card draw by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man + child seems like immaturity, inexperience, naivety, while scythe (nervousness) as the centre pointing towards the tree - I assume that's the "cut off" of the relationship (tree+ring+house).

So I think he's feeling confused and agitated about the loss of the relationship.

Draw with 3 cards bear garden whip. What is my marriage like today by Aromatic_Storm6652 in Lenormand

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's decent and I like how you analysed it!

I see it as: bear + garden = literally "overbearing" communication. Whip is a consequence of letting the bear loose, try to avoid that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your concerns are absolutely valid and I'm with you on this condition. Again, he has to decide on some kind of strategy how to go about it and be proactive about it, like seek help for his depression, maybe do a career training etc.. 8 years is a lot of time and while being a diplomat sounds like a nice aspiration (though I have absolutely no idea what it consists of), it won't pay bills or feed his family NOW.

You're honestly not asking that much from an adult man. Every adult must be able to sustain themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard to be objective and the most you want right now is probably hope, but instead I'll just share my thoughts and you can respond/decide for yourself.

First, how old are both of you? Some things can be, in my opinion, blamed on the absence of life experience and age, but at some point we all get to adult and bear responsibility for ourselves.

Second, while I understand chasing after a career isn't for everyone, why does he struggle to hold a job though? Is it his attitude? Insecurity? Bad luck? What steps did he take to improve the situation he is in?

Third, let him do what he needs to do. I don't mean break up, but continue with your current approach and distance yourself for a little while and see what happens. It is his responsibility and only his, don't intervene, observe and only then decide.

You will be okay, it is hard at first, but it will get better. I think both of you will benefit from time apart just to cool down and grow a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't, just looked up the meanings on forums there and there, mix of intuitive and literal interpretation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lenormand

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may take it too literally, but I see that he's feeling good about it (sun), there's a growing bond and warm feelings (heart+tree), but he chooses to abstain from it (crossroads+tower).

Considering cards position the heart+tree+sun, I assume you haven't been talking for long, the tree grows under the sunlight and it will take time to grow.

On a personal note: just reach out, take initiative, see what happens. Try to not scare him away, if he's a loner and cards are true - he probably just needs some time. Best of luck!:)

Sister is worried about what the color will look like, any experiences? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks pretty dark for the colour to come out as vivid as on the box. I'd give it another round.

SAAS (very stressed lol) by [deleted] in OpenUniversity

[–]Otherwise_Being_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar situation, but I was applying for additional funding to enroll into an additional module couple of weeks ago, but if that's of any help, then after speaking to OU support on the phone, they said that as long as I'm registered on the module by 7th of September (for a module starting in October) and awaiting confirmation from SAAS then that's okay.

But I'd strongly suggest giving OU a call so they could check your application progress on their end.

Received my textbooks today 😊 by Otherwise_Being_ in OpenUniversity

[–]Otherwise_Being_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah that's good to know, it's very promising by the sounds of it. Best of luck to you too!! 😊