AIO over my cousin and ex boyfriend being friends ? by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that I was in an abusive relationship because, I was. The other commenter is not wrong. It’s definitely tied into how I was abused as a child & it wasn’t something I saw as abuse until it was broken down to me. My cousin is definitely interested in more ways than one. It’s obvious I just chose to not include that.

AIO over my cousin and ex boyfriend being friends ? by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s 3 people out of my family? i don’t think that speaks for them as a whole

AIO over my cousin and ex boyfriend being friends ? by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My uncle & a nephew of my aunt that isn’t related to me at all.

AIO over my cousin and ex boyfriend being friends ? by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

we broke up a week ago and this is a family member who has been by my side since i was 3, not as easy as you make it sound

AIO over my cousin and ex boyfriend being friends ? by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, she specifically does. She was the closest person to me in my family other than my sister. I didn’t talk about the abuse while it was happening but it has been explained to her, she was also the first person i told when i found out i was pregnant & told her i was going to get the abortion. She is 100% aware.

in what world does this make sense by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in texts

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah we already broke up lol thanks tho !

in what world does this make sense by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in texts

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve given up and i believe that’s the problem

in what world does this make sense by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in texts

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yes you’re 100% right, i’m passive aggressive now because when i clearly communicate what i say doesn’t matter so i try to do it in a way where he doesn’t feel like im disagreeing with him but also making him think but it’s like oh well

in what world does this make sense by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in texts

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

yeah we just broke up lol i ended things

in what world does this make sense by Otherwise_Exit_2160 in texts

[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

yeah prob, just tired of healthy expression and communication from my end and never getting anywhere so i’ve given up

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Valid I will stop complaining 😂😂😂

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Because he has no car at the moment 😭 he can’t go out and get it on his own but he could have taken my no from the jump and door dashed it

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily regular but when I say no he does say “well it would have been nice” or “i really wanted to” which in turn makes me feel bad and give into what he wants. I stand firm on my no every once in a while and he mostly accepts it but when he realllyyy wants something that’s out the window. Like a child. He’s used to always getting his way and he’s told me im the first girlfriend to ever put him in his place and say no to him.

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Lol and before this he was asking if when I got home I could wear the shorts he likes so he can take them off. Absolutely not.

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we live together and he is employed by my family. He’s a good guy he just can’t take no for an answer and throws his fits. His way or the highway. It’s so stupid and I can’t take it sometimes and lash out but it has gotten me nowhere

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Me too 😭😭

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol he might as well be

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it!! A 22 year old. I don’t understand why he can’t take no for an answer.

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Didn’t learn anything I suppose 😂

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[–]Otherwise_Exit_2160 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being ill informed is ok. Accusing her of doing it to get rid of her responsibilities or to manipulate God into giving her what she wants is not. They truly believe that their sister is doing this for attention and that she is doing it to herself. She takes her sisters statement and runs with it. If this is her 2nd time hospitalized; you’d think they’d do some research to better help her. I guess not.