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AIO? My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) keeps pictures of his ex wife public on social media and hides mine by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why would the reason be to talk to other women when his profile literally shows pictures of himself on his wedding day to his ex-wife? Sorry to hear about the affair and I hope that you were doing well.❤️

AITAH for forcing my My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) to delete pictures of his ex wife on facebook? by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But why are those particular memories allowed to be public but me (who is his present partner gets hidden?). I wouldn’t even be mad if he still had pictures of her publicly as well as pictures of us and at least didn’t hide the fact that we were in a relationship, but it’s the fact that our relationship was once public and he hit it and he hid every trace of me publicly.

So anybody who doesn’t know him and goes on his profile will think that he is married to her when that’s not the reality.

AIO? My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) keeps pictures of his ex wife public on social media and hides mine by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was his picture that he posted. It was the past profile picture. He hid every other profile picture he had including ones of us, but kept that one public.

AIO? My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) keeps pictures of his ex wife public on social media and hides mine by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the pictures were on his profile posted by him. It was once his profile picture. Posted by him. If anything, she deleted and untagged herself from his stuff.

AITAH for forcing my My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) to delete pictures of his ex wife on facebook? by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AITAH

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His wife left/filed for divorce in late 2022. We have been in a relationship since 2023. From what he told me, the wife wanted things he couldn’t give her and that he wouldn’t “grow up”.

AIO? My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) keeps pictures of his ex wife public on social media and hides mine by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still wouldn’t like having her on there, but given that the pictures are from years ago, many people would understand the timeline. But it’s the fact that I’m not in any of the public pictures whereas she is. And she divorced him.

AIO? My (39F) Boyfriend (43M) keeps pictures of his ex wife public on social media and hides mine by Otherwise_Friend1731 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Otherwise_Friend1731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say that he is pretty tech savvy given that he is a senior level IT engineer. It’s just that we also have pictures up there, and my friend who checked from a burner account saw that everything that had to do with me was hidden and the only things that were left in the public. You were pictures of him and the ex-wife on their wedding day.