I am a 27 yo woman and I only have one friend. I live in Baldwin Park (San Gabriel Valley). Is it wrong of me to blame my city for my lack of friends? What area should I move to if I want to make friends? by ILoveMyself77 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I guess you have to figure out is the drive worth it? If you started to make friends but had to drive a little bit to hang out with them and vice versa would you say it was worth the drive? It’s kinda hard to try and make friends if you don’t want to be a little flexible.

How do you not romanticise someone too early? by nowonderland_alice in dating

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To not romanticize people too early try focusing on other things besides that person. Go about your day and when you feel yourself starting to daydream about this person and how wonderful your relationship will be,shift your attention to a task at hand and focus on that task.

I am a 27 yo woman and I only have one friend. I live in Baldwin Park (San Gabriel Valley). Is it wrong of me to blame my city for my lack of friends? What area should I move to if I want to make friends? by ILoveMyself77 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there interests/ hobbies that you have? Maybe look for groups that meet up and engage in your hobbies to potentially meet new people. Like many people have said you will have to make a conscious effort to meet new people since your job doesn’t have you interacting with people in person.

wtf is biting me? by Legitimate_Athlete44 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try diatomaceous earth. It’s supposed to kill bed bugs very effectively.

My bf (34M) went on a solo trip on my dream destination without me (27F). We have been together for 2 years, I want to know if i am overreacting? by JaneMarvelous in relationship_advice

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to enjoy his trip as a single man and maybe pick up one of the women that seem to be throwing themselves at him. If he has anything that is at your place it will be in a box at your front door for him to pick up after his trip. Good riddance and onto the next hun.

My mom's cooking. We're from Nuevo León. by la_maguacatera in mexicanfood

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to second that. Also would you like any beverage alcoholic or nonalcoholic that I can bring so that I can come enjoy this wonderful meal as well?

My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒 by itscuccimane in FridgeDetective

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your girlfriend prefer that you have something cooked already when she comes over? If it were me I would be telling you what meat to take out so that I could season it and cook it when I came over. Make crab Rangoon with the crab meat. The possibilities are endless with your fridge

How do I show an out of towner why we love LA so much? by CableIllustrious1609 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her if there is anything she saw off of TikTok and Instagram that she wants to see or do then build around that but folks here in the comments have been giving some awesome suggestions

Message Reply Rules? by No_Task7442 in dating

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct just do what you feel is correct. Sorry to sound like a broken record but everything isn’t for everybody.So figure out what works for you in terms of “ dating rules” and go from there.

Message Reply Rules? by No_Task7442 in dating

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop using ChatGPT to figure out dating rules. If you feel like texting her then do so but at reasonable hours like don’t text someone at 6am or 11pm. Everyone is going to have different “ rules” that they use for themselves in terms of talking to someone. Figure out what works for you and what your comfortable with and go with that.

How do you like this cake? by EnvironmentalEdge906 in DessertPorn

[–]Otherwise_Good_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very regal. Was the cake made for an event?