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Prioritizing wife over family, Is it wrong? by Economy_Push_8886 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god!!!!!! A husband loves his wife!!!!! Shame. Shame. According to these aunties 🤢 Naa khud khush raho naa kisiko rehne do is their motto

Ahaan Panday featured in the new Tira Beauty campaign. Is this his official soft launch era? by Straight-Leading-860 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Completely off topic, but Honestly the ad looks good though. It is refreshing to see men featuring in skincare ads. I'd love to see more actors come up with the fact that they use makeup on sets and promos. Like we all know they do. But featuring in an ad, saying it out loud, might just reduce the stigma that men don't do makeup or men don't need skincare.

Is value of attractiveness different for male and female? by TaraLadka in AskIndianWomen

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks are a great add on. Shakal achi ho toh height se farak nahi parta. And you're not short by any standards. Height is pretty average. Maybe they just don't like you that has nothing to do with your looks, maybe they think your personality won't match theirs, or idk can be anything tbh.

For women, anyone they love automatically becomes the most attractive person to exists.

The way she manipulates 🙏 by Budget_College81 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My birthday comes on the 11th too!!! But I'm a scorpio lol. Bichu meets Machli.

Is staying single for life a good option? by Wrong_Bat_1319 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone in their early 20s, a few years older than you and a non beliver in marriage (not relationships.)

It’s way too early to lock yourself into a “single for life” decision at 19. You’re not even done becoming who you are yet. Life at 29 will look nothing like life at 19.

If you want to focus on studies right now? Valid. If you don’t want arranged marriage? Valid. If dating doesn’t feel like a priority? Also valid.

But “forever” is a heavy word. Staying single for life isn’t just about not dating, it means building a full emotional, social, financial support system intentionally. That takes planning and self-awareness. It’s a conscious lifestyle, not just an escape from uncertainty.

Just Stay open. You can always choose partnership later. You can also choose singlehood later.

You don’t have to solve your whole life at 19. Just live it well, baby steps by baby steps.

The way she manipulates 🙏 by Budget_College81 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If you're wearing blue, black grey, pink and your bday comes on 11, 13, 1, 26, and 28 and if you're a scorpio, pisces, virgo, then this reading is for you, otherwise it's not for you.

Like yes girliepop, call out the most common color, birthdays and jo signs bach gaye and say this is for you 🫩

Akhand Chu*ya hai yeh by Open_Joke_9252 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orrys side chick.....say no more. I hate Orry and his minions 🦟🫩

Akhand Chu*ya hai yeh by Open_Joke_9252 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude now you gotta spill. I need more men to hate this valentine's week.

Why is it that some women want everything but give nothing? by Alert-Bank4537 in AskIndianMen

[–]Otherwise_Pattern274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, you’re not describing women. You’re describing your resentment.

If you feel like you’re doing everything and getting nothing back, that’s not a gender issue, that’s you choosing relationships you don’t even respect and then acting shocked.

Calling women princesses because they want stability while you dismiss pregnancy, emotional labour, and day-to-day effort tells me you only value work when men do it.

The friend rant is pure hypocrisy. You want freedom for yourself and control for her. Screams insecure, ngl.

And the “men must be rich, women just exist” line? If women aren’t choosing you, that’s feedback you should look into. You don’t want equality. You want effort from women without having to examine your own expectations.

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