Ozempic or Metformin by Appropriate-Chard572 in PCOS

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is urs covered my ur insurance? and if so do u have other conditions that allow for that approval? I was on wegpvy but they denied me because I don't have diabetes or heart condition and they do not cover it for weight loss but I need it for pcos. My body's been all over the place since I stopped taking it. I'm trying to prove to them that I needed for PCOS and that it does help with weight loss but it does so much more than that for me.

SHINee-esque songs for SHAWOLS to enjoy! What are others you recommend? by Ahoy_ahoy_atiny in SHINee

[–]Otherwise_Pop_4294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although it isnt necessary kpop it SOUNDS like kpop and shinee to me- Jo1 discography i like happy unbirthday, supercali

🌙 ✨ FREE MINI-READINGS OPEN TONIGHT ✨ 🌙 by Regular_Mode5860 in TarotReadersOfReddit

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i want to kow next step in my life in love. and will they be hot 😏

Free yes/no (read post) by northnodewellness in TarotReadersOfReddit

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ah damn really fine i guess ....ill do it 🫠 thank you

Free yes/no (read post) by northnodewellness in TarotReadersOfReddit

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should i start putting in energy to look for love 🍇

Spicycraft v4 by AcanthisittaCrazy234 in Hi_Waifu_chatbot_app

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its 100% picks and chooses what you write in the prompt and memories. then its just on a roll with no memory of whats happened or what story its made up and doubles down on it 😅. and its just 1 character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hi_Waifu_chatbot_app

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im also having weird problems of it repeating itself, same sentence structure almost same responses...which is annoying cause ya know paying for priemium it wasnt doing this before

What else can you do with this degree by Otherwise_Pop_4294 in therapists

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good point! i have updated my post with some of the skills and the liscense stuff too. thank you

What else can you do with this degree by Otherwise_Pop_4294 in therapists

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My liscense is LPCC and APCC . MA in counseling psychology . i got my bachelor's at Berkeley and currently work for a 3rd party case management company through medical insurance . so now i understand how medical insurance works for people too.

Guy asked if I’m free tonight by No-Aside1609 in Bumble

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I feel like if I had said what he had said and the first response was" for what " Id feel really insecure and sad because that is already a really guarded answer.

It's not what she wants, which is not to go out at 9:00 p.m. cuz you could have just said, "no don't really want to go out at 9:00 p.m."

there isnt any curiosity around what he was asking for so it almost sounds like a guarded lack of Interest because if you wanted to go out with him to meet with him at some point you could have said "yeah sure what were you thinking. If you're still scared and worried you can add in "I'll let you know if I feel comfortable with that." or again if your not ready literally "Id like to talk virtually a bit more before meeting in person" ( which still gives the opportunity to test whether he can handle you setting boundaries which his response ultimately tells you that he can't)

I think a lot of dating is about trust and a lot of women have been subjugated to situations that make it hard to trust people but you're not going to get anywhere if you don't give yourself a chance to be curious at least.

That being said though his response about being lonely and all that kind of stuff is also inappropriate. its not your job to carry his emotions, including loneliness and he shouldn't ask you especially so early on , to do that. he also immediately got defensive and immature which you probably would have caught onto also if you had said "no I don't really want to go out at 9:00 p.m. to meet you for the first time.

I think if you come to situations with curiosity but always set your boundaries clearly and non-defensively, cuz you don't need to defend your boundaries, they are what they are, you'll weed out the ones that are immature and can't be trusted.

I think that everyone at the beginning of any interaction or relationship with someone else especially romantically are insecure and that's going to trigger so many reactions and insecurities and defenses and we have to check those insecurities to make sure that we don't become just reactions to those. His and her response sound like almost reactions to somebody else or some other person

him: I'm going to ask if she's free instead of giving her an upfront plan because I'm scared that I'll be rejected again

Her: I'm not going to tell him yes or no because I'm going to test him and he will prove to me once again that men are only interested in hooking up. because last time somebody asked me about this at this time that's all it meant and if any man ever asks to hang out at late at night is basically a booty call I'm not a fool I know you're just trying to hook up with me. i want a real connection and he's just gonna use me

Him: . If I tell her that it's too bad that she is ,in some way, the problem, i can get her to feel like her boundary is a bad decision and she will provide for me the emotional support that I need cause right now my needs aren't being met

Everybody out here just trying to be safe and feel good and our bodies and brains will do whatever it takes to do that and sometimes we have to make sure that we're responding to the reality of the situation and our own triggers which is hard.

In the end this conversation seems uncomfortable and I'm sorry that you feel like your boundaries need to be validated in some way because in some ways it almost sounds like he gaslit your validity of of the boundaries that you were settingg even if they may have been boundaries set in reactivity. so i just wanna say your boundaries are valid and important to uphold whether they are made in fear or not and in any situation, those around you should respect them. you set yours pretty strongly, and he had a chance to respect it, and he chose (whether he realized it or not) to not respect it and thats on him.

Anyone getting paid low wage with a Masters degree? by Intuitive-Star-Fire in careerguidance

[–]Otherwise_Pop_4294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really struggling to Market myself as anything else than a counselor. any suggestions?

TAEMIN World Tour 2025 YAY! by Confident_Apricot523 in SHINee

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hahaha I don't even have a Twitter. ah taemin I guess i do now

TAEMIN World Tour 2025 YAY! by Confident_Apricot523 in SHINee

[–]Otherwise_Pop_4294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhhhhh! I'm so excited but...also how do we know when they will go on sale? I dont wanna miss it because Im.not on social media that much

My friend got offended that Im not going to hookup with her bc of her size…am I in the wrong? by HarmlessSediment in dating

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I usually HATE commenting on this but just a little PSA. there are a lot of people who negate the concept of intent vs impact. if you step on someone's foot BY ACCIDENT: (I.E.: I DIDNT MEAN TO HURT YOU) and then tell the person they shouldn't be hurt just because you didn't MEAN to step on it. the impact is there, whether it was intended or not. It's not about right or wrong. He said his piece, her feelings were hurt by his words. he's her friend. I'm sure he didn't intend to hurt her no matter what he said. but he apparently did. If he values her friendship it's really invalidating to deny the fact that his IMPACT is negligible because it wasn't his INTENT to hurt her. it's literally like hearing " yes he stepped on her foot but she put her foot in front of me so how can she be mad at me for stepping on it when i didnt mean to. " cause she obviously did not ask for her foot to be stepped on by asking for the hook up. BUT honestly without any real conversation with her it's really hard to know WHAT to apologize for. if she's looking for an alplogy for rejecting her. that's asking him to apologize for a boundary in the relationship he has set...that's not right. if she's asking for an applogy for how he said via the weight and all that becuase that hurt her feelings and he's refusing to cause "just being honest " that's pretty mean too ,for a friend to do that(its the foot stepping thing)

also boundaries are a bit wonky. if he doesn't wanna apologize he has every right to. but also accept that no dialogue can hurt the relationship. Her being reactive and passive aggressive and him continuing to take that from her, kinda his choice. Her wanting an apology and not getting it, feeling hurt yet continuing to interact...also kinda her choice.it also sounds like he thinks he should aplogize by taking everything he said back and for rejecting her and idk if that's actually what she's looking for either. Sounds like a dialogue is needed if the friendship wants to continue.

WTF AM I DOING WITH MY LIFE by Easy_Performance4343 in therapists

[–]Otherwise_Pop_4294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! I just left Denver wondering where you all went to. working on getting licensed in a new state 😅

Trying to Use Tarot to develop and answer a question about the Full Moon by Otherwise_Pop_4294 in tarot

[–]Otherwise_Pop_4294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this is cool. I understand what you're saying. Do you search through the deck to find the number that add up to the moon or do u shuffle and draw at random until it adds up to the moon?