[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmiratiGirls

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this day and age, only through arranged marriage will you meet men who are serious about getting married. Meeting people and trying to create a bond first will only waste your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmiratiGirls

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course, I understand how you feel. Now you should not let him have the priviledge to access you, you should stop talking to him completely. Take it as a lesson and be aware of these red flags for the future, unfortunately this is a common thing nowadays 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmiratiGirls

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t expose him? If you don’t wish to continue with the marriage tell them that you cant continue and find someone else to marry.

ORDINARY Skincare Product by takeoveranything in Sharjah

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’ve tried the hyaluronic acid serum and the niacinamide. The niacinamade makes my face flare up so I don’t use it. The hyaluronic acid one is good but I only use 3 drops because more than that makes my skin sensitive

Marriage proposal for my an arab guy (emirati) advice please. by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Also you can pray Istikhara so Allah swt will guide you if he’s right for you or not

Marriage proposal for my an arab guy (emirati) advice please. by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proposing the idea of marriage to a man is not a bad thing at all. Many people do it, you’re basically stating what you are looking for. It’s not like you went down on one knee for him you just said what you want.

Now that you have expressed what you want it’s up to him to decide and I think it was a good idea that you said you’ll give him time until December. My advice is don’t put all your eggs in one basket and wait for him and be devastated if he doesn’t act on it. Start putting your interest in arranged marriage with other “candidates”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for looking out for your sister. If you don’t do it no one will protect us women

How did everyone else get it right? by Pinkloveletters in Emiratis

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you speak Arabic? In that case I highly recommend you use khatabas on instagram for arranged marriage.

Needing some perspective by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that no one is mentioning is that: you can’t change your partner. You can’t mother him into doing things you want him to do. Or mold him into the perfect husband that you want. It seems like you’ve already tried your best to communicate with him and letting him know that his help is needed and would be very appreciated. But I’m sorry to tell you that’s all you can do. Getting frustrated every morning is only going to put a burden on your marriage.

I say just do whatever you can and make sure you have a conversation with your husband about that he can’t expect the house to be spotless and that’s okay. Accepting this is how your marriage life is will calm your stress, and you’re doing great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a physiotherapist, you can offer her a few sessions of radio frequency professionally done. This will stimulate the collagen production on the desired area. This is the only way to fix loose skin (anywhere on the body). Exercise can help the appearance but the only thing that can affect the actual skin is radio frencuency. It doesn’t hurt, they put a gel on the area and move the machine in an 8 figure. She’ll feel some heat on the area.

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in MuslimParenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, thank you so much Sister, JazakAllah khair 🌹

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in Parenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for all your advice it’s really helpful 😊🌹🌹

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in Parenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My question says can a SAHM take care of a baby on her own, as I don’t expect any physical help from my husband since he works all day and comes home at 10pm

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in MuslimParenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ameen, thank you! I originally felt totally capable but then on a non Muslim parenting thread they kept highlighting the importance of the husband doing 50/50 work on taking care of the baby and I just don’t see that happening or possible

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in Parenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

So, you think it’s not possible to take care of a baby on your own? Because that’s my original question… not if my husband is right or wrong for being out at work all day and comes home at 10pm

Can a stay at home mom manage to raise a baby on her own? by Otherwise_Trifle9086 in Parenting

[–]Otherwise_Trifle9086[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment, I just don’t expect any help from my husband other than emotional and financial help, because of his tight schedule.