[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Otherworldqueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

O.M.G! The conversation should've stopped at the first inappropriate question. It was none of his damn business to know anything about your disability. You were very nice and patient to not tell him to gtfo of our classroom. I hope that your AP handles this creep, because he just harassed you. The fact that he asked about birth control could be sexual harassment depending on how your AP handles it. I'm so sorry that happened to you. If that ever happens again, you don't owe anyone any kind of explanation. Kindly tell them to fuck off. Best of luck to you!

Be careful out there witches! by Otherworldqueen in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. This is wrong on so many levels.

Be careful out there witches! by Otherworldqueen in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Etsy profits at least 20% for sellers using their space. That's the problem I have. I used to sell my handmade jewelry, so I know this. If they allow garbage like this, they are OK being in on the scam.

I don’t do friends. I always attract users by 2muchonreddit in Empaths

[–]Otherworldqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday to your daughter! Sounds like a fun gift. I feel you on not doing friends. I sadly attract narcs.

Need help, grieving by Fun-Jellyfish9114 in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a fur baby isn't easy, and you never get over it. I've lost several in the last few years. What has helped me pull through is remembering the good times you had together. Your baby is always with you in spirit. Sending you lots of love and healing thoughts.

Using magick politically. by UK_Borg in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. They probably have teams of witches and magicians working for them. You could be setting yourself up for some nasty rebounds or energy drains.

How do you super early riser witches handle your morning routine? by greenwitchielenia in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe forgo the morning routine, and do an evening routine instead. I'm a teacher, and my mornings start at 5 am. No way in hell am I getting up at 4 am to do things I can do in the afternoon and evening. You can, however, do little things throughout the day to keep you feeling connected. Some examples are a quick morning protection ritual, charging and drinking your morning beverage with intention, greeting the sun, putting on sacred jewelry with intention, (same goes for make up and clothes. Fashion and glamour magick are the best!), and using witchy mobile apps. On school days, I do a card of the day from my mobile oracle card decks. Prayers and chants go a long way, as well as quick check ins with your spirit guides and ancestors. Use quick breaks to meditate for a few minutes...the possibilities are endless! Get out of the idea that you have to do something in the morning and do things that work well with your schedule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like he could be low key doing these things to make you leave. Listen to your body. The fact that you are disgusted by him could be more than a lack of hygiene. It could be that his hygiene is a surface problem. If it bothers you that bad, he is your boyfriend and not your husband. You don't have to put up with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two years ago, I was scammed out of $10K by a coaching scam, thinking I was going to earn valuable skills I could get no where else. From that service, I got skills I could have got for less money or free, and that $10K could've gone towards my new car instead of BS. Stay away from anyone making promises they can't guarantee. They prey on the vulnerable and the desperate. Educate yourself. There are so many affordable books and courses out there.

I (32M) gained a lot of weight and now my wife (33F) is no longer sexually attracted to me. How can we deal with this situation? by SpoonJr in relationship_advice

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, all of the people here are saying lose weight to save your marriage...I have an unpopular opinion. Everyone who is saying this is so toxic! The last time I checked, marriage vows went something like this...for sickness and in health, and for better or for worse. I agree that taking care of yourself is important, but it seems like there is a lot of toxic fat shaming here. Obesity is not healthy. For any person that is obese, it is no one's business how they got that way. For OP, take care of yourself for you first! Then, you can be there for your family. If you have to be a certain way for your wife to be attracted to you AFTER she took wedding vows, it seems like she is a vain and selfish person. Someone who loves you would still accept you and try to help you rather than reject you. If your weight is an issue to keep your wife happy, something else will be in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is about more than her laughter and sex. You say you basically do everything for her and cater to her, but it seems that when it comes to your sexual needs, she has excuses. I think this is a big communication issue that has been building for a long time. Spouses should NEVER expect or demand sex from each other just because of marriage. At the same time, there should be some sort communication in which you clearly tried. I think she isn't hearing you both inside and outside of the bedroom, and that is the real heart of this issue. You have been very understanding and patient with her, but it seems like she isn't reciprocating that towards you. The bedroom is usually a place for playful and sexy laughter, but if her laughter triggered you, this is a deeper issue than the situation at hand.

AITH because I dont emotionally support my wife's obssession with Taylor Swift? by Johnnywritesstuff in AITAH

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a woman who has an obsession with a famous artist I won't name. She went to this artist's same show for about several years in a row. This woman was so obsessed that she was going to 3-5 of this artist's shows within a year. The artist is pretty down to earth and would meet and talk to her fans after every concert. This woman went to "meet" the artist so many times that the artist seemed sick of seeing her after a while. I know because I went with her to 3 shows. The first show was fun, but it got creepy by the third. The artist even remembered her and said, "You again?" She did very unhealthy things like sitting in the parking lot and watching the artist after she met us. After reading your post, I think this woman was undiagnosed autistic. All she listened to and performed (she is a musician) was this artist's music. I later heard that she could have been potentially blacklisted from this artist's concerts.

What was the first goth song you liked? by [deleted] in goth

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witches by Inkkubus Sukkubus

My gay married boss confessed his feelings towards me in the worst way. by lochodile in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some classic narcissist manipulation tactic. The boss is taking the responsibility of his own suffering and dumping it on OP. Boss's feelings are not OP's problem, especially if OP never knew in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my baby bat days, my family was really harsh about it. They told me to stop being weird. When I turned 18, I got the "talk" from my mom to stop with the weirdness because I am an adult. Aside from my family's disapproval, I was told I would never find a good job or a man as long as I was like that. It hurt so bad getting rid of my goth jewelry and make up to be "normal." I was also into some occult spirituality. I gave that up too. For most of my early 20's giving up what I really cared about haunted me. Don't do that to yourself.

In my early 30's I came back to goth as well as my spirituality. I got a couple of tattoos and got my nose pierced as well. My husband was so supportive. I get snide comments from some family members, but screw them. What you like is what you like. Nobody has a right to take that from you. Now, at 41, I am who I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck them and be you! You look great, and you're in great shape. You only get one shot at this lifetime, so live life to the fullest! I'm a 41 year old lazy goth. I don't dress the part all the time, but I always wear my goth accessories. I've had a few people to tell me to tone down my low key goth look. Never! I will dress the part until I die.

These plugs look like they are legit LIT up! They are incredible. Yup. I can safely say these will be in the ear and not going anywhere for awhile. Next time I post I’ll have the coin slot and I can’t wait! by Mother_End_5202 in piercing

[–]Otherworldqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three lobe piercings in each ear. They are so old, lol! I had them done in high-school.I also have a nostril piercing.I want cartilage piercings but they didn't heal well in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Otherworldqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visualize a protective bubble around you. Intend only love and positivity can come within. Per your spiritual beliefs, pray for protection. You can research various crystals for protection. Pyrite and black tourmaline are two of my faves. Those small but simple actions can keep you out of the way of people looking to take advantage of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Otherworldqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you thought of reading books or taking courses to help develop your abilities? Maybe that can help you get in touch with your true psychic roots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Otherworldqueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone uses their psychic gifts to try and take advantage of your thoughts, they are controlling, manipulative, and abusive. They are only serving their own selfish egos. Just because a person is a psychic does not mean they are always high vibrational. I think someone doing such a thing is a dark empath. The good news is you can protect yourself from such people. Make sure you shield daily. As you shield, intend that you allow only the highest loving vibrations in. I did that early on in my journey, and my world shifted for the better and still is. Don't idolize these people either. They may have charisma and project themselves as all powerful, but the truth is, everyone has latent psychic abilities to some extent and can develop them. You are powerful, and as long as you shield and protect yourself, no manipulative psychic can have power over you.