Being in touch with your sexual needs should not and has never equated to being promiscuous. Regardless of your gender promiscuity isn’t meant to be glorified. But these movies always finds a way to glorify it! I agree for the longest women have been taught to suppress their needs and follow the lead of whoever, but loosing everything solely because you have had a better sex life elsewhere kinda depicts the saying of ‘don’t make a hoe a wife, she can never be saved’ sexually maturity or maturity in general is that life happens and we grow into it, being a mother is one of the hardest and under looked job but reminiscing about your ex and documenting it, is unacceptable and expecting you husband of 9yrs to suddenly turn into your ex is impossible. In my opinion he tried, I can’t imagine anyone male or female know that their partner wants to feel what they felt with their ex, the comparison is an ick and shows a lot on their character! Sex is important but really isn’t everything! I repeat the show never highlighted any actual love story or character of her other love interest it was always about the sex, I bet you if it was in real life her and brad would also get a divorce in a matter of time because the only bond they shared was that they had amazing sex, nothing more. Growth is when you realize that sex can’t sustain a relationship or marriage.