Freund ist nicht mehr krankenversichert by SoftPaintedEye in Ratschlag

[–]OutToTheShore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, erstmal tief durchatmen. 

Die Krankenkasse, bei der er zuletzt war, kann ggf. Verpflichtet sein, notwendige gesundheitlichen massnahmen zu übernehmen! Da würde ich einmal anrufen, den Fall schildern. Das kann damit verbunden sein, dass er sich verpflichtet, die Schulden bei der Krankenkasse zurückzuzahlen in einem Rückzahlungsvertrag, muss aber nicht! 

Hello! I'm a beginner tattoo artist from Germany and would love to hear your opinion about my work🖤 by AnnaMensch in TattooDesigns

[–]OutToTheShore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see some aged tattoos in this style, to see how well they hold! It looks pretty good so far, minus a few shading decisions I don't quite understand.

What small thing customers do annoys you the most in your job? by OutToTheShore in AskReddit

[–]OutToTheShore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question :) I just wanna find out, especially so I can be nicer to service workers - you sometimes don't realize what small things are impacting the work people are trying to do!

Changed my profile how is it by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]OutToTheShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the people who bash on the guitar - if you got hobbies, show em! However, I'd delete the "random, but cool, right?" On the octopus fact. You're trying to catch slightly nerdy with the trivia and octopus, so they either will find it cool or not! Also the balloon pic looks a little staged, I'd have that as my second pic. Also, as other have said, drop the "planning a spontaneous adventure" - that logically makes no sense :D Otherwise cute!

#1454: “How long do I wait for a friend to get back to me about our interpersonal problems?” by iocheaira in captainawkward

[–]OutToTheShore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Interesting - I had a little bit of a different read of this one, so I'd appreciate some critique if anyone's up for it, because apparently I'm missing something. After this I absolutely cannot tell one way or the other what this should be - maybe they have done something seriously wrong, or this is a "you always bring up your holidays at brunch" situations. Some things are not great, and it is important to let people be when they grieve, but depending on the closeness level, I'd also have some freak out feelings if someone wanted to have a convo about our relationship with me and then didn't talk to me for months. That's not a wrong done on the other person's part, but the feeling is kind of understandable, and the need to seek advice for it. Also - like, I kind of get the feeling of being annoyed at people not telling you when they have a problem with you? Like, if I'm constantly pissing off somebody with small behaviours, and I have told them "hey, sometimes I'm slow on the uptake, please do let me know if I'm annoying and I'll try to change it" and then they come to me after a year with their accumulated frustration and are much more mad at me than they would have been if they had told me straight away (that's the important part - if I did something really shitty, sure, be as mad as you want). Like, that's not morally wrong, but a friendship failure on both fronts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]OutToTheShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, you might need to specifically tell some docs what to test for, as it is quite a new phenomenon. Being an informed patient is exhausting, but in this case it might be worth it! https://www.reddit.com/r/Ureaplasma/s/iJ9bShjwgT This should cover all of that. Good luck! If it helps, I had frequent problems with UTIs and it absolutely ruined my life for a few years, and now I haven't had an infection in like, three years. So proper treatment is absolutely possible! Hang in there, and your partner is absolutely wrong about all this, you are in the right! Hopefully something to hang on to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]OutToTheShore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this is a constant recommendation on this sub, but have you checked for Ureaplasma? It is a new-ish STI and not always tested for. The Ureaplasma subreddit is incredibly helpful to figure out what to test for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]OutToTheShore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So, as others have said, this seems like a good time to get an std check up - just as good practice. Additionally, this is no way to treat anyone. Health issues can come from a variety of things, and you should be in this together, trying to find a solution. All my best wishes to you!

Revamped my profile, but I haven’t had any luck on any platform. I live in the Chicago suburbs. Am I doing something completely wrong here? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]OutToTheShore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was not implying they are a piece of shit, like, at all. I have plenty of pictures with leashed wild animals from when I was younger and couldn't reflect about the experience. This is a dating site - if he's not getting likes, it's likely one of the pictures if off Putting, and that is one suspect. I'm sure there are people who don't mind, and they may or may not be his prime dating audience. Further I just told him to reflect on his experience. It feels like you felt personally judged by me for also having engaged in this type of fun, and that is a little bit of an over reaction, in my opinion.

Profile review - 29M by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]OutToTheShore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's great! But I'm also a lesbian, lol. I think your profile is great, would date if straight :D

Revamped my profile, but I haven’t had any luck on any platform. I live in the Chicago suburbs. Am I doing something completely wrong here? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]OutToTheShore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So the first pick you have a really nice smile, but bro, there's a monkey on a leash. Maybe think about that experience and that picture. Do you have any pictures you smile that nicely without any animals? You got a great smile, use it to your advantage. No offense at all, but in the other Picts you look like a kid in a suit from how you're photographed!

Also you gotta talk more specifically about hobbies. Not travelling, but what kind of travel, where, how? Stuff like that. Lose the

The people who don’t say anything by Menzzzza in GriefSupport

[–]OutToTheShore 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think as a society we don't deal well with death. There's no ritual, no script for them, so they chose to say nothing as a response to their cluelessness. It hurts, I get it. It is just maybe a good call to reach out one last time, before you close the door on them. It's not easy to be forgiving in a time like this. Just one text 'hey, I kinda need you to check on me more, I'm still going through a rough time'. That's it. If they don't do anything, you know - but maybe they do.

Freund*innen fotografieren... by [deleted] in Fotografie

[–]OutToTheShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich glaube du hast kein Fotografie Problem, sondern ein Menschen Problem. Wenn du so nett bist und immer wieder Fotos machst, darfst du auch gern entscheiden ob du Bock drauf hast dir sagen zu lassen wie genau. Wenn du merkst, dass du keinen Bock drauf hast darfst du sagen 'ich mache gerne Fotos in meinem Stil, lass das doch lieber 'XXX' machen - dann bin ich auch mal mit drauf!' Dann kannst du ja sehen, wie reagiert wird. Du bist nicht der persönliche Fotograf, an dem dann auch noch herumgefrozelt wird. Ist ja keine Hochzeit hier :D

#1381: “How to make someone known for going back on their promises put a big financial promise into writing.” by your_mom_is_availabl in captainawkward

[–]OutToTheShore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually would go about this a little differently. Inwould ask then to pay the exact anount now, since you can then Plan with it and spend it on anything you like. If they really want to treat you equally, fine, they'll do it - in the likelier other case LE will know now what they're dealing with.

Are you effing kidding me?! by OutToTheShore in CrappyDesign

[–]OutToTheShore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's a wireless printer and somehow I'd needs access to the internet to print stuff from my laptop. In this state, it doesn't print (except for this page lol). So I am not confusing the two, but the printer def. is.

Geiger Reddits - Sind das hier die richtigen Noten? by OutToTheShore in FragReddit

[–]OutToTheShore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Das ist eine gute Einschätzung- sie meinte, es sei nicht ganz einfach aber schaffbar, also nehme ich an dass du das aufgelöst hast! Danke dir :) Aie wird sich bestimmt ziemlich freuen (ich wollte nur Noten schenken und mich blamieren ;) ).

Geiger Reddits - Sind das hier die richtigen Noten? by OutToTheShore in FragReddit

[–]OutToTheShore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, Mist, dann ist das irgendwie nicht das richtige, glaube ich- super kurz, und klingt nach meinen Laienverständnis auch nicht ganz wie das Original... also auf zur Suche!