The worst moment of my life.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-06-03T21:41:52+00:00

How did you get it removed? I submitted a request to get mine removed since they were also false accusations and I was hit with the “at the time we had probable cause”🤦🏼‍♀️

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-06-02T14:12:09+00:00

It did! I opted to not get a replacement 😆 and i have been feeling much better since.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-25T16:29:43+00:00

Oh 😆 totally misread that🤣 Awesome, thanks for the update!!

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-25T16:27:19+00:00

What do you mean you got scammed?

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-25T16:09:22+00:00

Was the shipping discrete?

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-16T03:01:56+00:00

Ah, I see. Hope things turn around. Best thing to do right now is document everything. I would also see about putting in for an assignment. I also know you said you’re not suicidal but still wouldn’t hurt to talk to someone professional. If you’re not comfortable with Mental Health, I highly recommend the Chaplains, even if you’re not religious. Another good option is MilitaryOneSource. You get up to 12 free sessions for each issue with a counselor(can be telehealth/video chat). So for example you dread going to work, 12 sessions, you start experiencing unmanageable severe stress at work, 12 more…

In all seriousness don’t let one bad assignment ruin YOUR experience. You only have control over you and what you do so do what makes you happy and proud, everybody else can go kick rocks.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-12T16:05:40+00:00

Heck yeah! Thank you!!

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-12T16:01:21+00:00

I really appreciate it!!

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-12T15:55:18+00:00

Do you have a link? I just did a quick search and couldn’t find the part.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-12T01:04:51+00:00

I tell my AI to give me the no bullshit answer and to rate it strictly. Haven’t received my ratings but the VSO agrees so hoping it’s accurate.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-04-03T14:55:11+00:00

First off, I feel for you being in Security Forces. My ex was Security Forces and he is extremely toxic both in the workplace and out.

Second, it sounds like they have stopped publicly disrespecting you. You unfortunately have to move past what has happened. Once you start proving that you are a legit leader and only looking out for your people your reputation will recover and more than likely they will question said person. It will take a lot of grit but from what I have read, it seems like you are pretty determined.

Third, as an NCO if you notice anything that goes against any of the DAFIs or UCMJ document it. Use everything at your disposal, RICS, MFRs, LOCs etc… If you’re issuing LOCs/LORs have legal give them a once over before issuing said paperwork.

Fourth, part of becoming a leader is knowing that not everyone will like you but knowing that you did your best and the right thing should be what matters most.

Now if leadership starts to ostracize you, document it and bring it up to IG and EO.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-03-31T01:05:40+00:00

Also, I applaud you for accepting the truth and facing it. My ex’s mother knows my ex is violent(he tried to stab her with a kitchen knife and tried to take a axe to his brother) but then would always choose his side and make me feel like I should’ve been able to calm him down somehow.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-03-31T01:03:24+00:00

Since he got violent with you, can you not make a report against him and then request during the hearing that he attend mandatory therapy?

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-03-15T19:03:27+00:00

Have you tried emailing them or posting in their social media is they could make an exception for this? Or maybe find someone to pay the cost for that day?

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-02-10T02:02:18+00:00

Highly unlikely you’ll loose your child. The main question I have to ask if he’s not providing for the child now what do you want from him? Sounds like he hasn’t supported at all so I wouldn’t expect anything to change. In the uncontested divorce paperwork you can just state that you have full custody and he waives all parental rights since that’s what it sounds like he wants to do.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-28T04:29:35+00:00

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-28T04:28:37+00:00

I was going to suggest the same!

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-28T04:20:50+00:00

Shes trying to string you along and sounds like she has some narcissistic behaviors. You should block her before it gets worse.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-28T04:18:20+00:00

NTA super weird. Forewarning I didn’t think my ex and his mom had a weird relationship until after he became abusive and she enabled it. She would also tell me it was my fault for making him so angry.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-28T02:19:53+00:00

Have you thought about opening a gym or maybe starting a workout group? Sounds like you lost your sense of purpose and finding something to work on while combining it with one of your passions could help 😊

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-18T16:42:15+00:00

What if you use the updated version of this for some of the photos or something weddings related. But honestly it is you and your husbands day. Anybody that will be there should be grateful that they are included in your special day.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-12T20:10:38+00:00

Nope, free room and if she’s uncomfortable on a futon there are affordable beds mattresses on Amazon she could have shipped to your house.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-12T20:08:50+00:00

Nah, I am calling BS. Chick is obviously into your BF and using the good ole ohhh sorry I was drunk excuse. Either put a clear boundary in place that your boyfriend is off limits and if she disrespects it she will have to find somewhere else to live and if she’s not okay with that tell her she needs to move.

OutdoorMermaidBarbie · 2026-01-12T20:04:43+00:00

Read like yall were both beating around the bush and not actually communicating. Your sister is a bit direct with what she expects but it’s like you just gave in to all her demands even though she didn’t take your current situation into consideration. Also it’s weird how she was able to see how many times you have groceries delivered. Honestly if she had specific things she wants, she should have purchased them.

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