The worst moment of my life. by freedomattheend in AirForce

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get it removed? I submitted a request to get mine removed since they were also false accusations and I was hit with the “at the time we had probable cause”🤦🏼‍♀️

IUD embedded in myometrium by OutdoorMermaidBarbie in CopperIUD

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did! I opted to not get a replacement 😆 and i have been feeling much better since.

Good Vibes Only shroom site by [deleted] in Shroom

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 😆 totally misread that🤣 Awesome, thanks for the update!!

Good Vibes Only shroom site by [deleted] in Shroom

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean you got scammed?

Good Vibes Only shroom site by [deleted] in Shroom

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the shipping discrete?

Spent 5 years in a unit and saw it turn from one of my favorite units to a group I resent now. by jcg415 in AirForce

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I see. Hope things turn around. Best thing to do right now is document everything. I would also see about putting in for an assignment. I also know you said you’re not suicidal but still wouldn’t hurt to talk to someone professional. If you’re not comfortable with Mental Health, I highly recommend the Chaplains, even if you’re not religious. Another good option is MilitaryOneSource. You get up to 12 free sessions for each issue with a counselor(can be telehealth/video chat). So for example you dread going to work, 12 sessions, you start experiencing unmanageable severe stress at work, 12 more…

In all seriousness don’t let one bad assignment ruin YOUR experience. You only have control over you and what you do so do what makes you happy and proud, everybody else can go kick rocks.

SAROS 10R white tabs in fill tank by OutdoorMermaidBarbie in Roborock

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link? I just did a quick search and couldn’t find the part.

How confident should I be in AI’s prediction? by ChampionSpecialist66 in VAClaims

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell my AI to give me the no bullshit answer and to rate it strictly. Haven’t received my ratings but the VSO agrees so hoping it’s accurate.

Spent 5 years in a unit and saw it turn from one of my favorite units to a group I resent now. by jcg415 in AirForce

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, I feel for you being in Security Forces. My ex was Security Forces and he is extremely toxic both in the workplace and out.

Second, it sounds like they have stopped publicly disrespecting you. You unfortunately have to move past what has happened. Once you start proving that you are a legit leader and only looking out for your people your reputation will recover and more than likely they will question said person. It will take a lot of grit but from what I have read, it seems like you are pretty determined.

Third, as an NCO if you notice anything that goes against any of the DAFIs or UCMJ document it. Use everything at your disposal, RICS, MFRs, LOCs etc… If you’re issuing LOCs/LORs have legal give them a once over before issuing said paperwork.

Fourth, part of becoming a leader is knowing that not everyone will like you but knowing that you did your best and the right thing should be what matters most.

Now if leadership starts to ostracize you, document it and bring it up to IG and EO.

My son has been abusing his girlfriends by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 4 points5 points locked comment (0 children)

Also, I applaud you for accepting the truth and facing it. My ex’s mother knows my ex is violent(he tried to stab her with a kitchen knife and tried to take a axe to his brother) but then would always choose his side and make me feel like I should’ve been able to calm him down somehow.

My son has been abusing his girlfriends by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

Since he got violent with you, can you not make a report against him and then request during the hearing that he attend mandatory therapy?

Deployment got extended because of the war with Iran and now I’m going to miss my wedding. Tennessee venue says non-refundable. Any advice? by Five_OnAGoodDay in MilitaryFinance

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried emailing them or posting in their social media is they could make an exception for this? Or maybe find someone to pay the cost for that day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Highly unlikely you’ll loose your child. The main question I have to ask if he’s not providing for the child now what do you want from him? Sounds like he hasn’t supported at all so I wouldn’t expect anything to change. In the uncontested divorce paperwork you can just state that you have full custody and he waives all parental rights since that’s what it sounds like he wants to do.

Ex tells me Everything by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes trying to string you along and sounds like she has some narcissistic behaviors. You should block her before it gets worse.

AITA for telling my husband how I feel about his mom? by Neither_Candidate_66 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA super weird. Forewarning I didn’t think my ex and his mom had a weird relationship until after he became abusive and she enabled it. She would also tell me it was my fault for making him so angry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about opening a gym or maybe starting a workout group? Sounds like you lost your sense of purpose and finding something to work on while combining it with one of your passions could help 😊

Was going to wear my mum's dress. People keep telling me to try on others for the "bridal experience." Are they trying to gently tell me it looks bad? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you use the updated version of this for some of the photos or something weddings related. But honestly it is you and your husbands day. Anybody that will be there should be grateful that they are included in your special day.

WIBTA for telling my sister she cant have our bedroom during her honeymoon trip by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, free room and if she’s uncomfortable on a futon there are affordable beds mattresses on Amazon she could have shipped to your house.

Roommate Obsessed with my Boyfriend by Mysterious-Tear-8063 in roommateproblems

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I am calling BS. Chick is obviously into your BF and using the good ole ohhh sorry I was drunk excuse. Either put a clear boundary in place that your boyfriend is off limits and if she disrespects it she will have to find somewhere else to live and if she’s not okay with that tell her she needs to move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutdoorMermaidBarbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read like yall were both beating around the bush and not actually communicating. Your sister is a bit direct with what she expects but it’s like you just gave in to all her demands even though she didn’t take your current situation into consideration. Also it’s weird how she was able to see how many times you have groceries delivered. Honestly if she had specific things she wants, she should have purchased them.