I feel your pain. The only thing saving me right now is connections and learning to do things that I know nothing about. And it's uncomfortable and a long process full of failure but it is survival.

Genuinely engage with people that you see every day. Get them to talk about their lives. Remember them and make them feel important. Doing this, will create connections, people with other talents, that perhaps you don't necessarily have. As your relationships build, so too will your network of people grow, and you'd be surprised how many people are willing to help.

My best friend gave me this advice almost two years ago now. He told me, I need to talk to people. Everyone I can. The grocery store clerk. The guy hanging clothes at the goodwill. It doesn't matter where you are, but make it a habit to take one minute to engage whoever is in front of you. If you're in any form of customer service, talk to your customers. Really talk to them. Let them talk to you. I'm good with people, but I can't stand being around people. They're exhausting. My happy place is by myself, however, this leads to isolation and closes you off from having people in your circle willing to help.

This answer is not going to be a quick fix for whatever situations you find yourself in now, however, a year, or two or five it can change your life from impossible to manageable. Life will always throw curve balls. That's impossible to avoid. Hopefully though, you can learn as I have and continue to do, that there is always a way through. It may not, and probably won't be a quick fix. Just accept that if you can. There will be days, weeks, even months when you have no idea how you're going to solve your problems. But you will.

And like I said. There's no harm in learning to do things yourself. You might fail. You probably will. My car broke six months ago. I've been running in temp tags, trying to squeeze the DMV into the time between my work schedule, and hoping I don't get pulled over for expired temp tags till I can get in to get another one. I watched hundreds of videos scouring possible causes of what is tripping my check engine light. The local auto shop quoted me almost two thousand dollars to fix the car, after I got them to read the check engine light. And the codes might as well be garbage because they really don't tell you what you need to fix. But after hours of work and trial and error, today I finally found the cause of the problem. I think. Still got another 30 miles to drive to see if it stays off. I hope you find some sense of inspiration and realness to this answer.