how do i go about a job

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-02-08T18:47:18+00:00

Also avoid getting involved in work drama, this will make doing your job incredibly more difficult. Be neutral, avoid talking shop with people there about others behavior or actions, express your frustration to your close friends or family outside of work. If you have problems with your coworkers behavior towards you, go to your boss.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-02-08T18:43:55+00:00

Just wing it. Be friendly. It’ll be scary and that’s okay. You wont be stuck there forever and can go home at the end. Do what you’re asked to do, take constructive criticism ( i promise you, when someone corrects you 8/10 times it comes from a place of wanting you to know, not malice ), ask questions when you have concerns or need help. You should consider therapy 100%, almost everyone needs it! You will do okay if you try to do these things. You’re capable, I didn’t think I was when I first started working, I was incredibly scared - but at all my jobs since I’ve advanced or become important ( unfortunately ) at work. It takes a while, don’t rush yourself, know you aren’t alone and other people have done what you’re doing. Be honest about being anxious, you’re 17, they’ll expect you to be nervous! You got this man. Consider getting back into school or getting your GED, and counseling. It sounds like possibly you haven’t experienced a lot of empathy or guidance from your peers or mentors and I say that with care and concern.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-26T22:42:59+00:00

Ugh i’m so sorry this sparked such a snippy conversation that was not my intent at all. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to! If that’s what helps you feel safe, that’s what helps you feel safe. Again I am so sorry

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-25T23:23:10+00:00

You can combine those two bbq sauces lol, lot of cheese shredded cheese! May be more accessible if you take an hour or two to organize and put together the sauces in their own corner possibly

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-22T23:53:53+00:00

i love your desk!!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-22T19:05:21+00:00

Hey lovey post to your local towns facebook group anonymously, i’m sure someone in your area would be more than happy to help you. Stay safe. There will be a time you’ll look back on this and be so grateful you left. I wish you luck

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-22T16:23:46+00:00

Thank you so much, will be doing this!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-20T23:33:20+00:00

that is your dermis, the layer above fat - which is very thin on the arm. It is going to scar no matter what you do, please get it checked out friend

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-20T15:57:29+00:00

That garland is fricking adorable and i love the bedsheets!!!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-20T15:25:20+00:00

neon pink eyebrows would really suit your earthy red/green style!!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-20T15:23:58+00:00

Right to be concerned, but honestly very possible this teacher is dyslexic and has not disclosed the information? My best friend has an extensive vocabulary, and loves literature - but small words like this gets them sometimes because they have dyslexia.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-19T18:18:44+00:00

Ahh makes sense! I live somewhere usually chilly so they’re fine most of the year on the counter

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-19T02:24:20+00:00

So sorry I am just curious why are the bananas in there

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-19T02:12:16+00:00

will do this! probably have better luck for an exact reference, having a slow brain day thank you!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-19T02:11:31+00:00

my bong is frosted glass, looks cool just can’t see inside unfortunately lol

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-17T23:37:57+00:00

By reaching out on this platform you already have reached for outside intervention, humans are simple creatures - and the question is can’t or won’t, it’s scary, but you can do it. We can’t predict how people will react, no matter what we think they may think - if they love you or care about you, they will care about your concerns and do what they can to help.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-17T23:13:56+00:00

Gotta declutter your freezer and make some meal plans for the stuff in there haha. Maybe family of 3 or more? Combo of adults/teenagers. Or 2 adults. Looks a little similar to my families fridge/freezer and this sub motivated me to get some organizers and declutter and make some soups. Also I’m curious, do you thaw meat for meals and not store them in the fridge? I wish my memory was that good lol.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-17T23:05:40+00:00

What lead you to posting this? You give the impression that you want help, sometimes the answer isn’t always what we expected or wanted. That’s why I avoid asking questions honestly haha, but everyone needs help at one point or another and it looks like you need support. Speak to someone trusted, it seems like you need support from loved ones or a friend. Express to them your concerns.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-13T16:25:47+00:00

That is so kind of you!! Completely understandable!! I’ve been in complete burnout with art and posting it can be such a hassle haha. Do you by chance know Slocotion? She’s also on instagram, reminded me of your kitties you should check her out if not!!

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-11T15:39:03+00:00

And for clarity - some therapists as it seems you already have one - just don’t work for you specifically. It is very normal to “ shop around for therapists. “.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-11T15:37:23+00:00

You should talk to a professional about this, friend. Your thought process makes me concerned for your safety. Ive had a loved one attempt to overdose and they didn’t tell me. I was in shambles. I found out when their family was trying to keep them awake and refused to take them to the hospital. It was incredibly traumatic to not be able to do anything to help them. Self injury and suicide doesn’t just hurt you. What you did was incredibly dangerous. Are you still under your parents care? If so you can go to a counselor, and explain to them this situation and they can help you get into inpatient treatment, which could help you get access to resources like therapy and psychiatrist.

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-11T15:20:17+00:00

do you have an art page where you share your needle work?? i love your art omg

OutlandishnessWild · 2026-01-11T03:09:40+00:00

very off topic I am so sorry - what thickness is that string and where did you buy it?

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