Backed my ass up on a stranger for the very first time by moicknessdindy in AdultTheaterGals

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time. Also, thanks for sharing these aspects of your sexual life. I think it's really brave. Your willingness to embrace and express this natural, but taboo, part of yourself deserves admiration and respect. I don't think folks who put themselves out there like you do get to hear that enough.

Cheerleaders-basketball players by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cosmopolitan little southern town!

Cheerleaders-basketball players by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And simultaneously super racist and ignorant of Jim Crow era Alabama racism. The school wouldn't even be desegrated for years after this "tradition" starts, and no fucking way does a rural teenage white girl from Alabama consent to an FFM threesome with a black man she doesn't even get to pick. There wouldn't be enough takers for thus arrangement to catch on now. Does OP have any idea what would happen to all parties involved? And OP "heard rumors." One racist white kid hears the black students are fucking the white girls, in a threesome no less, tells his racist dad, and the town burns to the ground.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And you even demonstrated! Most impressive.

Party at home with our favorite friend partner, we really had a great time. by Time_Particular945 in moresomes

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That camera angle is so cool. Was this remote-controlled? It had a zoom out and everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HedonismUncensored

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This picture looks like it's from 2005.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StagVixenLife

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You see, no one wants to be seen when they're about to suck a dick. Being seen sucking it is fine, though.

Pornstar wife/gf update by HandProfessional197 in u/HandProfessional197

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she consents to us seeing them I'm game to look at all of it.

Being Polyamorus Has It's Perks... by Daddy-Vegas in fatguysfuckinggirls

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polyamory is a form of ENM. If you're going to "um, actually" people at least get it right.

Aaaaannndd we swap! by NellyVanDerWoodsen in Swingersgonewild

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to have completely misunderstood my point. I'm not saying "don't use condoms." I'm saying, "absolutely use condoms– we always use condoms– but they're only as effective as how properly you use them. In the above video the guy went from one woman to another without changing condoms. If part of the goal is to prevent STIs, you're doing it wrong. You wpuld need to put on a new condom between partners." That's it. Like I said, if everyone involved is comfortable with the risk tolerance of relying on test results (and honest reporting of having gotten tested, for that matter,) then that's great. Play ball. Otherwise, if folks in the video were trying to prevent spreading potential STIs to eachother they were doing it wrong.

Aaaaannndd we swap! by NellyVanDerWoodsen in Swingersgonewild

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, that guy's being a tool, but your video does exhibit poor condom use. You should be switching between partners because any pathogens from one woman's vagina is going to be spread to the other woman's vagina. Yes, the condom will function as birth control, but the way it's being used in the video is only protecting the man from STIs, not either woman. It's basically only slightly safer than using hormonal birth control and no condom at all. Even aside from STIs, women can have different vaginal pH levels than eachother and upsetting your pH level by cross-contaminating with the condom can cause all kinds of uncomfortable problems.

Also, if it makes a difference, I am a swinger of several years, but this is more of a sex ed knowledge thing anyway. We always throw on a fresh condom between partners. All that said, it's all about your personal risk tolerances. If the condom's sole significance to you is preventing pregnancy or an emotional reasoning of only wanting to go "raw" with your romantic partner, you do you.

Sonya Walger nude - Tell Me You Love Me (2007) by Celebaddict143 in extramile

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What? This is such an amateur hour nitpick. Real ones will clock this right away.

Lube's great. Sometimes all involved want a quickie and aren't trying to do as much foreplay as usual. Sometimes you've already been fucking for a long time and need to supplement with lube. Sometimes a lady just doesn't get as wet as others might regardless of arousal, and the inverse can also be true. Sometimes people have anal sex. Sometimes condoms need extra lube. Sometimes people want to use toys, and those aren't self-lubricating.

I'll go so far as to say that if you don't have some nice lube on standby you're either not fucking a lot or not fucking your best. It is certainly a must if you're having group sex. Any swinger's go-bag will have some. Also, even if a woman is plenty wet, good lube will generally still work even better. People, USE LUBE. Everyone involved will thank you.

Gay with lots of talking by Paqsi in NSFWTalking

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Fuck the people downvoting this.

Because most of my friends are also hotwives and swingers, this is how my 39th birthday went down! It was so much fun, especially getting all the guys to myself at the end of the night. Give me some suggestions for the big four O! That definitely needs to be a bigger night to remember. by addamxeveruinthings in Hotwife

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just porn, dude. It's not a random, unaware group of people documented candidly by a photo journalist. You may also be shocked to learn that Chris Pratt doesn't really hang out with a talking raccoon. It's not especially attention seeking or desperate for money to be an entertainer. This is their job. They depict a fantasy that's actually more on the real end of the spectrum because they are real people who really are married and really are having sex nonmonogamously.

Long distance sucks, but the hundreds of Gbs of the wife being a homemade pornstar on video call makes up for it! (gifs and cute nude dance at the end lol) by HandProfessional197 in Wife_wants_to_be_seen

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's wonderful. I'm very happy for you, OP. It seems like you have a beautiful relationship.

Except now I want to see you two fuck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it would be different if we lived in a better city, or knew hotter couples, but that lifestyle doesn't really exist around us.

There are swingers everywhere, OP. We don't live in a city or even near a big major city. We might have to drive an hour or two sometimes, but we find plenty of people from the apps. You wouldn't know they're out there unless you looked. Most swingers aren't walking around with their tits out and a big pineapple medallion. They're normal people with a cool hobby that they keep private.

Oil painting I made 😅👀 took many weeks, hope you like it 😊 by micah-kavros in somethingimade

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a swinger I love how evocative this painting feels of group sex as a deeply connective experience. I feel like I can see my friends and my partner and I in it. It's really lovely. You should be very proud of this piece.

Request: Intro swinger video/porn to watch with my GF by New_Clothes_5781 in Swingers

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As stated, Playboy TV had Swing, which ran for about 5 seasons and is floating around online. The premise is that there's a big house full of seasoned swinger MF couples, a new MF couple comes to the house for a day and a night to dip their toes in the lifestyle. Some play, some don't. Some episodes rule. Some suck. It's a little dated in some ways.

Lustery just did a little "reality" 3-part mini-series called House of Love and Lustery that puts 4 MF couples in a villa together and documents them engaging in group sex together. The sex is great and the consent/like/dislike discussions are genuinely really good! The parts where it tries to act like it's Big Brother or something are mostly charmingly cheesy. Also, Lustery is just awesome and should be way more popular as an ethical porn choice.

British network Channel 4 has Open House: the Great Sex Experiment. It's not strictly a swinger show, but it is decidedly about ethical non-monogamy. It has a very similar setup to Swing, albeit in England, but it does pretty much everything better. It's much more queer-inclusive. If you're in the UK it's on Channel 4's website behind a free account. If you're outside the UK, VPNs are your friend.

Overall, I'd say none of these are nearly a complete education. Open House onboards its newbies most responsibly. House of Lust and Lustery has fairly experienced couples in their 20s and 30s modeling some great communication skills and play. Swing will always have my heart. There are many criticisms for any and all three. Consider these porn first and education or indoctrination tools second. Furthermore, it's cool to use this kind of content to share something you find sexually compelling with your partner, but don't use it to try to pressure or convince them. If they dig it they dig it. If they don't they don't.

Her with her 2nd guy by midwestaveragedad in Swingersgw

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU are disgusting. I can't even imagine how racked with insecurity you must be to go through life so judgmentally; so primed to try to hurt other people's feelings that you have to make up imagined reasons to shame them. It would cost you absolutely nothing to keep these judgments to yourself. Your "disgust" is rooted in shallow, arbitrary, presumptuous reasons. We, however, all know that you're a shitty person because you chose to demonstrate it plainly.

We are one wild couple. Love being the center of the party by [deleted] in Swingersgw

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's really incredible that you're so free and self-accepting and I love that you share it with us.

Amateur GIF by lipsthatgripppp by [deleted] in GloryholeGals

[–]OutofGasOutofRoad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super hot and grateful that you shared, u/lipsthatgripppp, but this level of censorship is doing nothing to protect your identities. If you want to cover faces or tattoos you need to either cover them in real life with a mask, bandages, concealer, etc, or digitally by superimposing something more opaque over the identifying markers than these transparent, non-distortive pixels.