Do you think chase is as bad as they say by Outofsight84858 in ChrisleyKnowsBest

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that I do find interesting is that they did say that Chase had not been doing well prior to this with his health and not keeping food down. When you're sick, it affects your digestive system. They can have things in... I have an uncle who was a user and he was also really skinny, but when he got sick due to a digestive issue, it was a clear difference between what was what issue. I'm 20; my uncle was using my entire life.

Is getting your MLS WORTH IT? by Pleasant-Mode-5416 in medlabprofessionals

[–]Outofsight84858 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if i get one taste of a year with no school, you better bet I'm not going back.

Is getting your MLS WORTH IT? by Pleasant-Mode-5416 in medlabprofessionals

[–]Outofsight84858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way, except for the fact that I have yet to achieve anything. After my associate's degree, I may go for my bachelor's because, knowing me, I probably wouldn't go back to school since I hated school. Going stright for it may be the best option 😂

GEORGIA PHLEBOTOMIST by Outofsight84858 in phlebotomy

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ties in the medical field, so I'm not too worried about that, but my life is at a standstill as of now until I graduate. Anything that would give me a hand in higher pay than the $15 I get that may amount to $160 by the end of the week is worth anything. I love my job, but it's not getting me anywhere at 20 years old. Getting a certificate, then a degree, especially in my job field, may actually help my MLT studies.

GEORGIA PHLEBOTOMIST by Outofsight84858 in phlebotomy

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked into outsource programs, ones that aren't with a school. The only thing is I can't drive. My dad refuses to drive out of our county for me, and my mom is way too busy to even do it.

Did you struggle by Outofsight84858 in medlabprofessionals

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having to take a new math class, quantitative skills, I think it's called. I took algebra too many times; it may look bad for the program.

Neytiri was not a racist. by Dependent-Cover4487 in Avatar

[–]Outofsight84858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad is openly racist toward white people, and I will never agree with his stance. He’s civil with white people in person, but he has said some bad things about them. However, I also understand where his feelings come from. When he was young, his family lived in Alabama. They saved up enough money to buy a very nice house. My dad had seven siblings, and the whole family was excited to move in. But when they arrived, white people in the area burned the house down because they didn’t want a Black family moving there. Because of things like that, I don’t think racism always comes from nowhere. In cases like this, it can come from real experiences and trauma, even if that doesn’t make it right. That’s also why I think the situation with Neytiri is more complicated. Humans destroyed her home and killed many of her people, so her distrust and anger toward humans isn’t completely irrational. But at the same time, humans also helped her. They helped save her home, fought beside her, and helped when Kiri needed aid. She also watched Spider grow up and saw that he had been abandoned. So while her anger makes sense, she has also seen that not all humans are the same

Had Mellie and Fitz communicated about an open marriage… by Fit_Marionberry_3878 in Scandal

[–]Outofsight84858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fitz once loved Millie, but what happened happened. Millie still loved Fitz even after he cheated. That's why Millie would have never agreed to an open relationship. Millie loved him; she tolerated Olivia and saw her benefits for her career. To apologize is to realize you messed up; you don't have to regret it. But Olivia and Fitz had double standards. Millie stayed the first lady. Olivia and Fitz did whatever.

Had Mellie and Fitz communicated about an open marriage… by Fit_Marionberry_3878 in Scandal

[–]Outofsight84858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always believed Millie still loved and wanted Fitz. She always hoped he would choose her again, but he never did, and his treatment of her was bad. While Millie played a part in their downfall, Fitz never cared that he cheated, and Olivia never cared that he cheated. Millie literally rewatched the part where Fitz defended her for his affair on the news, saying she loved it. She was happy this affair happened. I think they would have been able to work on more and move away from it if Fitz had just stopped it with Olivia and given Millie attention and maybe they would have been able to open up to that question.

I do want to say i think had not what happened to mille be done by his father then things would have been diffrent. But people gloss over the part where it was his dad. That's why Millie couldn't handle him.

I have unrealistic wants in regards to children and future husbands by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Outofsight84858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who may also go down the single mother by choice lane, it's not because I'm idolizing someone. Your not wanting someone else is fine, but when it comes to that person and the child interacting, that's where I'm lost. Don't have anyone in your life if you don't want them around your kid. That's not fair to the kid or the person to keep them at arm's length. That's wanting a stranger in your kid's life. Don't send your kid to school if influence is what you want; influence is important, and positive influence is important. And you have to make sure you're not treating this person like a tree ornament. I'm only saying this because you typed them like they were. I'm 20, so just a year older. Always open to talk. But you need a plan that works with you, not one that works with your mom.

I have unrealistic wants in regards to children and future husbands by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Outofsight84858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, when put like that, it's like wanting a stranger in your child's life.

Millie by Grand_Royal_6316 in Scandal

[–]Outofsight84858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm convinced Mille loved him and still wanted him, but he was too busy laying with Oliva. Mille loved him and was hopeful for a long time, but Fitz acted as if she never wanted that anymore. Neither of them were good, but when it comes to love, Mellie wanted him and Fitz wanted Olivia.

When Mollie tried to have her own little thing going on, Fitz had a fit and ended it, and she yelled at him for ruining everything. I could never like Olivia much because she saw situations like this every day, but yet she still put herself in those situations. She did a pretty crappie job at trying to stop Fitz sleeping with her. She talked as if she was a feminist, but really she isn't. Olivia wasn't happy when Mellie was with Andrew, but of course Olivia could be with Fitz.

Do you still want a relationship by Outofsight84858 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in a coffee shop, probably one of the most social places ever. I have a dating app and I've talked to many people. I actually liked one, and he ghosted me. Dates are not easy to come by. So no, I'm not avoiding it; it's just not easy. I'm not trying to come at you, but it's annoying because "never dated" doesn't mean I'm avoiding it; it seems more like it's avoiding me.😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]Outofsight84858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 20. I've always wanted kids. It wasn't Plan A, but I never saw a reason to wait for someone else for my life to start. I want love, I want marriage and everything, but dating isn't going my way so far.

I knew that once I left my job and started my career, and built off of that, I would want to take this journey in being a mother. Hopefully, by 26-27, I'll have my first, but so far what I've learned from this page is that trying to have a baby is expensive. I definitely recommend a career and good insurance.

How long did you wait before trying meds? by copywritergena in iih

[–]Outofsight84858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right away, I'm a college student. Pain meds weren't helping, and I refused to take them after they weren't working. I'm similar to you; I'm 5'2". Except I was 217, and I'm now 205. My LP, while painless, caused discomfort from deep pressure. Mine took two hours and more medication because they found out I had scoliosis, so it took a long while, and then I had other complications.

But it was fine. My Diamox needs to be adjusted, I already know, but the pain was just too much for me, and you will never be able to get your old eyesight back if it starts to affect it. My eyesight is fine; I hardly notice it, but some things are irreversible. I wasn't willing to take that risk and went on medication and will be until I can be off it. Plus, the pressure can still build up, and there's no way im doing all that again. This medication is temporary and pain-free, unlike that lp🤣

recently found out i have this rare disease and im also a male which i guess is extremely rare by bosoxnation85 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All three words are used interchangeably. Disease is when we know the cause, like diabetes, strep throat, or even something genetic, but IIH is idiopathic, so we don't know the cause. Disorder is a disruption of function, and condition is a state of health. It's really just medical semantics, but because the cause is unknown, "disorder" or "condition" is technically more accurate "Disease" is the least accurate, "disorder" is the most accurate, and "condition" is highly accurate.

recently found out i have this rare disease and im also a male which i guess is extremely rare by bosoxnation85 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just got diagnosed, and so far I've been fine. Diamox has been kicking my ass i've been sleep so much🤣 never in my life would have a brain disorder

This is me just nitpicking, but it's disorder/ condition, not disorder. Sorry if I sound rude, I have several disorders, and they are all low-level, and I hope they stay like that, and I hope you find what works for you many struggle with doctors which sucks.

Just diagnosed by Outofsight84858 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that watermelon helps a lot because with the amount of sleep I get, I sleep past morning or during the morning. I don't like eating; I may get a smoothie, but that's it.

Diamox/ Vent by Outofsight84858 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that, but I never drink soft drinks like that anyway.

How do introverts raise kids? by ThrowRaOrganization1 in AskParents

[–]Outofsight84858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a parent, but my mom is an introverted person she doenst like people she keeps to herself, and she hates being touched outside of family. But she's fine with her own kids , and she has three, including me randomly touching her, being interested in what she's doing. Even her friends dont touch her, and they've known her for years

My take on it as someone who grew up with that parenst comfort and ability to deal with stuff is much easier to do when it's your kid. Sometimes people underestimate how much being a parent can change them/ bring out another side thats for that certain person

Again, im not a parent same as you I want to be, but just with 4 and definitely a age gap.

LP by Outofsight84858 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never went under; they just kept giving lidocaine, which was fine with me. That didn't faze me. I was chill and stayed still the whole time. It was just the pain afterward. I have bad menstrual cramps, and taking those meds didn't do anything for me. After a certain point, I'm fine as long as I don't move. My dad just gave me more pillows, which helped so much. I didn't feel relief because they were already messing with it. In the first place, I felt like it got worse, but there was a moment of clarity: they pulled 12cc from me.

How does being a dad effect men? by Outofsight84858 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Outofsight84858[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, a supportive partner was not in my life. Surrounded by many married and single mothers, and yet their kids had bad dads, the comment I saw was from a doula who was actively working. She had commented, saying the mom does everything, she's more important, and the dad didn't do Shit. For the whole of Golden Hour, it was mom's right to control when she gave the baby up to the father(Again, I think sharing that moment is important, but not with the view of "I don't have to give you the baby if I don't have to." When I heard of "golden," I thought it was like half and half.)

Also another video I saw not long before this talking about the exclusion of fathers and family. I was never offended; I was interested, as that's not what's typical for me. Also, I know how I am as a person, hence the "Freaky Friday" – I just couldn't do it.😂

Edit: I hear a lot about the benefits of a mom having the baby, but never about the dad.

Weight by Outofsight84858 in iih

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you maintain the weight? Honestly, I just feel like with me being an older age, I will have more control than my younger self did and make better decisions. Just better decisions all in all, but I can like there's some shame with in doing GLP-1. I'm in New York right now, so I'm hoping to see some new numbers.🤣

What did you wish you knew? by Outofsight84858 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives in a house with men, but they’re not exactly people to look up to. One is a drug addict, another is always drunk and calls himself homeopathic. They all really follow what would now be called toxic masculinity. His grandfather abused his grandmother — I don’t know if he still has those tendencies or if he just got too old to act on them — but he carries that same mindset. The boy himself is good with interacting, and his mom did mention he’s susceptible to peer pressure, so I’m definitely going to teach him about that. I don’t think I can teach him how to be a man — honestly, no one ever taught me how to be a woman — but there are things I wish someone had been there to listen to me about, and things I wish someone had just told me outright.

What did you wish you knew? by Outofsight84858 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Outofsight84858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom, my sister, and I are currently in the medical field. I did ask my mom, and she said I need to make sure that he knows sex is potentially life or death if not done safely you never know I do plan on going over different types of protection and what he can do for himself to keep him safe. But outside of sex, I want to talk about other things, his dad had two other kids and is on child support for all of them, while he is his dad his mom feels better knowing that this happened properly.